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Exclamation Should i give my bf a handjob? - December 21st 2011, 06:46 PM

My boyfriend has recently fingerd me and i was just wondering should i return the favour by giving him a handjob i wouldnt mind doing this but i wouldnt give him a blow job He has not asked but i am not sure if i should or not ?
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Re: Should i give my bf a handjob? - December 21st 2011, 06:52 PM

emm Yea !!!!!! but be sure not to get clamidia :L
   
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Re: Should i give my bf a handjob? - December 21st 2011, 06:54 PM

sure it doesnt seem to full on ?
   
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Re: Should i give my bf a handjob? - December 21st 2011, 06:58 PM

i dunno i heard u can get clamdia from handjobs and stuff but im no expert :L
   
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Re: Should i give my bf a handjob? - December 21st 2011, 07:04 PM

How I really see it is if you want to give him a hand job go for it.








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Re: Should i give my bf a handjob? - December 21st 2011, 07:10 PM

As one of the above posters said, you can get chlamydia by giving a hand job. However, this is ONLY if you have an open cut/sore on your hand, and semen gets into it & if your boyfriend was affected with chlamydia itself. So, if you know your boyfriend is STD free, you should be fine. Source here: wiki.answers.com/Q/Can_you_get_chlamydia_by_giving_a_hand_job

Anyway, you DON'T have to give him a hand/blow job if you don't want too, but it would be a nice surprise for him. Just because he hasn't asked doesn't mean it can't be done.











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Re: Should i give my bf a handjob? - December 21st 2011, 09:14 PM

A handjob would probably be a good idea. Just be careful where you point it when he....
   
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Re: Should i give my bf a handjob? - December 21st 2011, 09:42 PM

Ok I can't tell you whether to give him one or not, that's up to you. Most guys like them. As the above user have said you can get an STD from doing this. I wouldn't be that worried though because you can get an STD from almost anything sexual so don't freak out about what they said. They were just telling you an STD you can get from handjobs but, you will probably be just fine. Good luck.
   
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Re: Should i give my bf a handjob? - December 22nd 2011, 05:15 AM

If that's what you both are comfortable with & you want to do it, go ahead.
   
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Re: Should i give my bf a handjob? - December 22nd 2011, 06:17 AM

We can't tell you whether you should or not. Do whatever you feel comfortable with



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Re: Should i give my bf a handjob? - December 22nd 2011, 07:46 AM

It's not really a tit-for-tat thing, but if you want to give him one and he wants one then go right ahead.


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Re: Should i give my bf a handjob? - December 22nd 2011, 08:12 AM

If that's what you want to do, do it, but make sure you get his permission as well. This can be a look, a smile, but make sure that he is not nervous about it as well. We always assume guys just want to go for it, well, just make sure that's what he wants, and if you want to give it to him, well, then go for it.



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Re: Should i give my bf a handjob? - December 22nd 2011, 03:56 PM

A girl surprised me with a handjob several weeks ago, and she's been giving me one (or a blowjob) twice a week since then. They feel great, but you could just start to unzip his pants and keep going if he lets you. He'll have his own likes, but for me it's best if the girl's hand goes slow in general, but occasionally squeezes it and sometimes goes momentarily faster, before going back to slow. You don't want to get it over with too soon.


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Re: Should i give my bf a handjob? - December 22nd 2011, 04:29 PM

you should do whatever feels confortable for him and you.


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