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View Poll Results: Are you a virgin?
Yes, I am a virgin. I have not had sex at all. 88 53.01%
No, I am not a virgin. I have had sex. 71 42.77%
I have only had non-vaginal sex. 8 4.82%
I am not a virgin, but I have not have vaginal-penile intercourse (Pardon ♥) 1 0.60%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 166. You may not vote on this poll

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Re: Are you a virgin? - December 27th 2011, 11:18 PM

Still a virgin


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Re: Are you a virgin? - December 29th 2011, 01:43 AM

Nopee as of about 2 months ago i am not (:


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Re: Are you a virgin? - December 29th 2011, 03:55 AM

Not a virgin... haven't had sex in a year though. Sucks. That will change with this new partner in the next few months though. Then I'll be having a good time!



   
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Re: Are you a virgin? - December 29th 2011, 04:08 AM

Yes I am a virgin. Though I get teased for it, I don't want to lose it to some random girl. I want it to be someone I care about.
   
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Re: Are you a virgin? - December 29th 2011, 04:17 AM

Virgin here, and that's the plan until marriage.
Though, that's really not so strange in the school I attend.
   
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Re: Are you a virgin? - December 29th 2011, 05:23 AM

I'm not. I lost my virginity at a young age, but I don't regret it. It felt too right to be wrong.
   
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Re: Are you a virgin? - December 29th 2011, 05:16 PM

Wow it's been a while since i've checked this and the virgins are making a comeback. Thank you to everyone who voted or who will vote. Thank you for answering to this poll.
   
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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 1st 2012, 06:35 AM

I am a virgin, I plan on waiting till im atleast 18.
   
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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 1st 2012, 11:28 AM

Not a virgin, don't regret losing it, just to who I lost it. Haven't had sex in over a year though, but that may change soon.


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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 1st 2012, 12:35 PM

This pops up every few months,can someone just sticky it and not make a new thread every time?
   
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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 1st 2012, 05:14 PM

I'm not a virgin.
   
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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 1st 2012, 08:47 PM

Wow, its almost half and half- I'm actually surprised!

I'm a virgin myself, no immediate plans, but I can't honestly say I plan on waiting till marriage...
   
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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 1st 2012, 09:13 PM

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This pops up every few months,can someone just sticky it and not make a new thread every time?
Agreed. Can we do the same with a "What age did you lose your virginity?" thread since they pop up all the time?
   
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Unhappy Re: Are you a virgin? - January 6th 2012, 06:44 AM

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I'm making this to show people exactly how many of us are virgins and how many of us aren't.
Whoa.. hold up a minute! If I got a blowjob from a girl, I'm not a virgin anymore? I thought both guys and girls were considered virgins if they had not had intercourse.


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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 6th 2012, 07:57 AM

No I am not, havent for a long time.
   
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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 6th 2012, 03:48 PM

Yes, I am a virgin. I am pretty proud of myself.


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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 8th 2012, 12:23 AM

I'm a virgin I think I want to stay this way until I'm either married or 22 or 23. I was isolated a long time. I'm not into a relationships just friends right now.
   
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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 8th 2012, 11:22 AM

Ive done oral stuff and he accidentally popped me with a finger but ive never had actual sex. Am I still a virgin?
   
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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 8th 2012, 11:54 AM

We could probably do with a sticky defining virginity as well....

Being a virgin is whatever YOU make it. If you think oral sex takes your virginity, then that's your definition of a virgin. Some rape victims, even though they've had vaginal intercourse, still consider themselves to be virgins because they didn't 'lose it' willingly.

I personally say that once you've had vaginal intercourse, willingly or not, you are no longer a virgin. But that's just MY opinion.

Also, to girls, just because your 'cherry' is 'popped' doesn't mean that you are no longer a virgin. Your 'cherry' is actually your hymen - a thin layer of skin which covers the opening to the vagina. It has some small holes in to let out menses (period blood.) Some girls break this using tampons, or doing exercise like bike riding or horse riding. Some girls are born without one. Chances are, it will break when you first have sex (if it hasn't broken already) and that is why it often hurts/bleeds the first time.

Being a virgin is NOT a physical thing. It's entirely mental. So asking "Am I a virgin?" is a bit pointless, because it's a question only YOU can answer.

I hope this cleared some things up.

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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 8th 2012, 01:21 PM

I may have been sexually abused but I still have my hymen I was proven to be a virgin by examination therefore to me virginity is anyone who has proof they're virgins. I was active in gymnastics and ballet so I don't really get how you lose it other than with sex. Also I was 10 when I had my proof and the period thing must be a myth. Because I had my period for almost 2 years and I still had my hymen. I think more people are born without it than generally believed.
   
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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 8th 2012, 01:40 PM

Not as of yesterday.


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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 9th 2012, 02:42 AM

Then yes I'm a virgin
   
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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 9th 2012, 02:49 AM

Nope, Not a virgin. I am not planning on having sex anytime soon though.


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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 9th 2012, 02:59 AM

Still a virgin


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Talking Re: Are you a virgin? - January 9th 2012, 03:42 AM

Happy days... I'm still a virgin..


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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 10th 2012, 01:29 PM

No I'm not, but it wasn't my choice.

I've never had consentual sex, does that count as still being a virgin?


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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 10th 2012, 07:53 PM

I'm still a virgin and I probably will be for a while. Yeah, I'm okay with that.


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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 10th 2012, 08:17 PM

Yes I'm 20 years old and still a virgin


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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 10th 2012, 10:54 PM

I'm a virgin, but not by choice. By that I mean that I want to be in a relationship before I have sex, and I've never been in one much to my dismay.


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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 11th 2012, 02:33 PM

it wasn't by choice for me either I was isolated during my childhood.
   
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Post Re: Are you a virgin? - January 11th 2012, 07:30 PM

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I'm a virgin, and I plan on being so until the night of my wedding. =)
^ Same here.


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Re: Are you a virgin? - January 12th 2012, 02:12 PM

Not a virgin. I don't regret it, but it makes me sad that I'm not still with the person.


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