has anyone loved someone and they turned into a hoe?

[youllneverknow]

i been talking to this guy since 2003 and just this year he became a hoe because of his friends are hoes i guess he gotta change to. i got a call from him and its nun but sex being talked about im not a hoe. but alot of times i went silent and he kept coming back but the reason aint right. but this time im ignoring him completely

[Chris.]

Yes, unfortunately people change over years, especially in High School and College. I graduated with 50 kids in 8th grade - now to find out that 3 girls I graduated with have had kids, and 1 girl has had 2 kids. So changes happen, but we have to adapt to them. See whats great about it is that we don't have to talk to those who we don't like. And if a person changes and we aren't happy with who they have become then we have the choice to not be involved in the friendship anymore.

if you feel that not talking to him is best because of who he has become - then trust your instinct and decision!


Best wishes,
Chris

[Dervisher]

Sadly people -especially teenagers- change their personalities based on who they're surrounded by/interacting with. It's a childish trait that most can't shrug off until they get a minor identity crisis where they realize they aren't who they want to be.

Thus why i'm staying single until i'm done college (Possibly longer than that) because I have yet to find a single person who hasn't fulfilled my predictions of their immoral actions.
e.g. a girl says she'd be willing to wait through college to date me. I predict she'll be dating a different guy within a week of her saying this.... 3 days later she's dating someone.

It gets pretty old watching people not be able to understand their immoral attitudes, or they straight out ignore it and blame someone else for it.

[SamMarie]

It's just immaturity and that's just what it is. As much as people like to change people, they can't. Only they themselves can change for the better, they just have to see it and accept it. It's unfortunate, but is indeed life. If he's seeking help to change that, then that's a different story. But as time goes on, you begin to realize who your true friends are. No one has to be what they are. They can always change. If they recognize it early, it'll probably be easier to overcome. I think people need to learn and stand up for themselves instead of conforming to the crowd. Society is disgusting. Either way, I think most of us can say that we aren't the same person 5 years ago. Our decisions are solely based on what we have mold ourselves to be now. It can still change, but only if they're willing. Sorry to hear about your story.