Non-PG13: Issues with being on top

[niente_]

I really hate it at the moment. With previous guys I was never worried. But now I'm with a guy who is much more experienced than me and I'm worried I don't compare to who he's been with before.
I think he's picked up that I'm not keen on being on top, so he is doing all the work. If I get on top my mind kind of goes blank and I have no idea what I'm doing. I could really use some advice or tips (I know youre not supposed to post them on the forums but can you PM them?) I've looked at porn and stuff but whatever I do if I get on top, I dont get much of a reaction from him, so I feel like I'm doing something wrong and I jump away from him so that I don't feel stupid.
And sometimes he laughs, which makes me feel really insecure. And then in general every day life, he'll come out with some digs about me not doing any work in the bedroom, but when I brought it up, he said "I was only joking!" But he still continues to do it to the point where it upsets me.
This really shouldn't be a big deal, but it is. Any help?

[Aletheia*]

Being on top can be VERY intimidating. I'm not sure we can PM tips either, but Google will be your best friend for advice on how to make the "girl on top" position more pleasurable for the both of you. In this case as well, you need to communicate with him. If he's already picked up on the fact that you're not a big fan of being in that position, then you should explain to him why. He'll most likely be more than willing to help you out. I'm not a fan of the position either, but when I make an effort, my boyfriend loves it and he's always willing to help me out or give me pointers to make it not only more pleasurable for him, but for me as well. Let him know that his comments and laughing brings you down, and that it hurts you. If he knows, he'll stop.