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Question Age Difference - January 6th 2012, 05:59 PM

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Has anyone had sex with someone either female or male that is really old then you are? Or Have you have sex with someone really young then you are? How much was the age difference?

I usually have sex with older men. Mostly averaging 5-8 years apart from my age.
   
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Re: Age Difference - January 6th 2012, 06:06 PM

The oldest man I've had sex with is 2 years older (he's 20 and I'm 18).


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Re: Age Difference - January 6th 2012, 07:19 PM

I've only slept with two people. The first was only a year and a few months older than me, and my current boyfriend is 2.5-3 years old than me (I'm 21 and he's 24)











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Re: Age Difference - January 6th 2012, 08:10 PM

Mine weren't that much older. My ex was only six months older. My current boyfriend is about a year & a half older.
   
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Re: Age Difference - January 6th 2012, 10:19 PM

The oldest guy I've had sex with is about 4 and a half years older than me..he was the best as well, to be honest. Next oldest was 3 years older, the other two were within a year of my age. The girls, if they count, were both my age.

(Never sure whether the guy I lost my virginity to counts as someone I slept with, but he was just 8 months older.)

So I haven't strayed too far out of my age bracket really.


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Re: Age Difference - January 6th 2012, 10:50 PM

I've had sex with only one guy, who happens to be my current boyfriend. He's 23 now, and I'm still 19 but I'll be 20 in two weeks.


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Re: Age Difference - January 6th 2012, 11:04 PM

3 years older than me... so not a massive age gap. I think once you hit around 19+ age matters a whole lot less to you.
   
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Re: Age Difference - January 6th 2012, 11:27 PM

Most of my boyfriends have been similar age to me but I never had sex with them because I wanted to wait untill I felt ready (another story)

But my partner is 9 years older than me and I lost my virginity to him too, we get on well and parents are ok with him too.
I agree with paige after having few b/f since i was 14 and most treated me like dirt, I stopped caring what age they were, so long as they were nice and treated me well that all that mattered
   
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Re: Age Difference - January 6th 2012, 11:54 PM

Now that I think about it, no I really haven't. I don't think anyone I've slept with has been more than a few months older than me.


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Re: Age Difference - January 7th 2012, 12:33 AM

i was also a virgin when i met my guy but there is 14 yrs between us...im 21 and his 35 and we have been together for 2 yrs and 2 kids as we both like to say


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Re: Age Difference - January 7th 2012, 03:11 AM

The oldest I have had sex with is about 19 (I was 16).


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Re: Age Difference - January 7th 2012, 09:58 PM

The youngest person i've slept with was 21 when I was 17 so a 4 year gap. The oldest person I've slept with was 39, so a 21 year age gap. I've always had a thing for older guys though.


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Re: Age Difference - January 7th 2012, 11:12 PM

I've only had sex with one person. My girlfriend. I'm 19 and she is 22.
   
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Re: Age Difference - January 8th 2012, 04:28 AM

I've slept with two different people. The first was 3 years older than me, my current boyfriend is 3 1/2 years older.



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Re: Age Difference - January 8th 2012, 06:13 AM

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whats so gross...isn't love more important then age (well when ur of legal age anyway) there are 14 years between me and my guy but i don't think about that...

there was 20 yrs between my dad and birth mum and 31 yrs between my dad and step mum but they don't care and they don't care how old the guy im with is as long as im happy


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Re: Age Difference - January 8th 2012, 02:35 PM

One of my favourite debate questions! I slept with a guy once who was ... nearly 30 years my senior. His girlfriend is 3 years younger than I am. I've also slept with others who are close to 20-25 years older.


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Re: Age Difference - January 9th 2012, 08:06 PM

I have only slept with 3 guys, my first was 16 when I was almost 15, my next was 19 when I was 16 and my current boyfriend is 16 and I am still 16
   
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Re: Age Difference - January 9th 2012, 08:10 PM

The guy I lost my virginity to.. He was 20 when I just turned 16, so 4 years apart

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Re: Age Difference - January 11th 2012, 05:28 AM

Biggest age difference in a partner was 18 years. I was 19 and they were 37.


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Re: Age Difference - January 21st 2012, 10:30 AM

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Has anyone had sex with someone either female or male that is really old then you are? Or Have you have sex with someone really young then you are? How much was the age difference?

I usually have sex with older men. Mostly averaging 5-8 years apart from my age.
i've had with older women couple times, 4, 8, and 9 years older than me . . .

other than that usually my age, never had with much younger female . . .
   
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Re: Age Difference - January 21st 2012, 11:02 AM

I am 24 and the girl I am with is 18. We are both college students of course and I draw the line right there. If they are in High School I do not care I will not go down that route. She and I have discussed it numerous times and we have come to an agreement age is just a number.

My parents were 18 and 30 when they first had sex. I was their first child. Mom was the youngest of course.
   
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Re: Age Difference - January 21st 2012, 08:23 PM

Oldest I slept with was 21 when I was 18. Youngest is my current girlfriend who is 16.
   
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Re: Age Difference - January 21st 2012, 08:40 PM

I'm a virgin but my current boyfriend is about 9 years older than me.
17 and 26.


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Re: Age Difference - January 21st 2012, 09:54 PM

My boyfriend and I have an entire 36...day difference. So he's a month older than me. He's the only guy I"ve ever had sex with, so not much experience for you. But I don't think there's anything wrong with it.



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Re: Age Difference - January 22nd 2012, 01:03 AM

i just turned 18 two weeks ago my boyfriend will be 29 next month so 11yrs. I've always like older guys tho I've never dated anyone less than 3 yrs older than me.


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Re: Age Difference - January 22nd 2012, 11:38 PM

I've only had sex with one boy, my current boyfriend who is 1 day older than me! But, my friends have had sex with older guys, sometime 10 year age gaps.


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Re: Age Difference - January 23rd 2012, 02:35 AM

Ive had sex with 4 guys:
Two of them were 16, one is 17 and another is 23.
The eldest is a 7 year gap, the youngest was a few month gap.


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Re: Age Difference - January 23rd 2012, 12:54 PM

My biggest age difference was 9 years. But now with my current boyfriend the age difference is 4 years
   
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Re: Age Difference - January 23rd 2012, 09:15 PM

The oldest I've gone is 2 years older, but I've also gone 2 years younger..def better with the older guy lol
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Re: Age Difference - January 25th 2012, 02:38 PM

I have slept with guys between 2 and 4 1/2 years older than me. Although a guy I do like is almost 11 years older than me....even though he doesn't act it. The point is I guess I wouldn't mind sleeping with someone that much older than me. And just to throw this in there. My parents are 14 years apart...lol so clearly age didn't matter to them. XP


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Re: Age Difference - January 26th 2012, 03:08 AM

The one person I have slept with was a year and a few months older than me. My parents are over 20 years apart though, so the age gap that people choose doesn't bother me in the slightest.


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