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Smile Sex, I want to have some. - January 24th 2012, 05:28 PM

It's been 1 week, 6 days, and a few hours since I last had meaningful, passionate, wonderful sex with someone I love(d). Since we broke up yesterday, I am feeling very mixed emotions .

So - Coping methods with the fact that I will probably not be having sex for at least the next month or two.

Suggestions please?

And for the love of all things sexy, don't give me generic "just go jack off" responses. I have that covered thank you very much.

I am talking about things to keep my mind off of it. Activities, potentially distracting hobbies, etc. Obviously I can't have the intimate relationship I so desire at the moment - so I need distractions while sex is not available to distract me.

Sex, while an excellent distraction - is still not my true goal, but it's the closest I can get - so since I cannot have that distraction at the moment... I need distraction ideas.



I'm looking for creative ideas to get my mind off of how damn horny I am.

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Re: Sex, I want to have some. - January 24th 2012, 05:52 PM

Buy some off of ebay


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Re: Sex, I want to have some. - January 24th 2012, 06:39 PM

Uhh...maybe you could watch porn or something? Whatever gets you off, I guess.


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Re: Sex, I want to have some. - January 24th 2012, 08:10 PM

You can buy sex on ebay?

Porn isn't for me. Don't like it.

I am talking about things to keep my mind off of it. Activities, potentially distracting hobbies, etc. Obviously I can't have the intimate relationship I so desire at the moment - so I need distractions while sex is not available to distract me.

Sex, while an excellent distraction - is still not my true goal, but it's the closest I can get - so since I cannot have that distraction at the moment... I need distraction ideas.

To prevent myself from becoming even more redundant, I am going to stop typing.


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Re: Sex, I want to have some. - January 24th 2012, 08:23 PM

I read a book. but i don't know if you like reading. I also watch funny movies and shows.
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Re: Sex, I want to have some. - January 24th 2012, 11:58 PM

Well, I can't miss something I've never had... But, I say do something you enjoy doing, instead of thinking about it. (Also. Vibrator, that's what they were talking about about Ebay. )


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Re: Sex, I want to have some. - January 25th 2012, 12:12 AM

Workout. Run a few miles. Pump some iron. I know it sounds stupid - but it burns energy, and keeps your mind off how horny you are - and not to mention you are keeping healthy.


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Thumbs up Re: Sex, I want to have some. - January 25th 2012, 12:19 AM

I'm with Chris. Working out or taking up a sport will definitely help get rid of that antsy feeling that builds up. When I broke up with my girlfriend I had the same problem, but rubbing one out never works, so I started working out. The feeling will go away, you'll stay fit, and you'll look great since you're now on the market haha.

Hope this helped any...

Oh, btw, hanging out with friends is also one of the best ways to lose that feeling.

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Re: Sex, I want to have some. - January 25th 2012, 01:29 AM

Working out is a great idea. Go hang out with some friends, obviously, being horny around your friends is a lot less likely though it happens. Maybe go somewhere that you can meet a new partner, and keep your mind open for new adventures and new people. But until then I would recommend working out, writing, start a blog, watch Youtube videos, go to concerts and find new bands, you know? Just find new hobbies and new things you like.



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