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quesion about shaving - March 28th 2009, 10:16 PM

so im a guy im 23 and im a virgin i want to know if girls like it when a guy shaves down there or should i not shave what do girls prefer?
   
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Re: quesion about shaving - March 28th 2009, 10:25 PM

I prefer my sexual partners completely natural. All the hair there... but that's just because I have a body hair fetish. I think most prefer trimmed, but let a few others respond to be sure. Doesn't matter anyways, though, do what you want with your body-- not what others want.


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Re: quesion about shaving - March 28th 2009, 10:26 PM

Ew...personally I hate it. It looks so wrong.

I do, however, expect men to TRIM down there. Y'know, keep it tidy, not like a forest or anything.

You should try either way out though, try not to go for what girls want from you, just see which one YOU like best. It's your body, do what you want with it, not what other people want.

Shaving can be time consuming though and has to be done regularly, the only thing worse than a man being shaved down there is a man with a load of stubble down there. Also you may break out into a rash if you shave. Not attractive.


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Re: quesion about shaving - March 28th 2009, 10:38 PM

If you are wondering what your girlfriend will like, ask her! I would say most girls at least like things cleaned up down there. Not always shaven, but trimmed and clean If you want to make sure she's happy, I would ask her though. Remember, only do what you are comfortable with as well.

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Re: quesion about shaving - March 28th 2009, 10:39 PM

I prefer shaved. Pubic hair in general doesn't scream of cleanness in my head. Trimmed is fine, too. Honestly, if I were a guy, I wouldn't bother shaving.


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Re: quesion about shaving - March 28th 2009, 11:54 PM

hmm ok i still dont know what to do
   
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Re: quesion about shaving - March 28th 2009, 11:58 PM

I say keep it trimmed, doesn't look unnatural like clean-shaven, but still looks quite clean and tidy =]


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Re: quesion about shaving - March 29th 2009, 12:05 AM

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I say keep it trimmed, doesn't look unnatural like clean-shaven, but still looks quite clean and tidy =]
Because you are still unsure, I agree with this. Trimmed is always a good place to start. From there, it can go either way depending on how things go, and your girlfriend's reaction.


   
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Re: quesion about shaving - March 29th 2009, 12:06 AM

Although I can't say I find the thought of men clipping their pubes over the toilet particularly thrilling, I would rather that than navigating your forests. So, trimmed please.


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Re: quesion about shaving - March 29th 2009, 12:39 AM

I'd say trimmed. I'm not a fan of the whole natural look, but the thought of a guy shaving just isn't appealing to me either.

I wouldn't worry as much as what your girlfriend likes, but I'd go with what you feel most comfortable with.


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Re: quesion about shaving - March 29th 2009, 01:11 AM

I think you should do whatever you are most comfortable with. I personally don't really care as long as it isn't a forest down there... so I guess I like it trimmed? I would say keeping it trimmed is your safest bet but do what makes YOU feel most comfortable. If this is really worrying you just ask your future sexual partners what they prefer. Good luck with everything. I really wouldn't worry about this to much.



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Re: quesion about shaving - March 29th 2009, 02:56 AM

Keeping it trimmed is always nice. You don't wanna go down into a forest and lose your way.




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Re: quesion about shaving - March 29th 2009, 03:07 AM

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Re: quesion about shaving - March 29th 2009, 03:12 AM

Honestly, I don't care what you do. Do what you prefer. I guess I'd say trimmed though, if you really wanted to know what sounds the best to me.


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Re: quesion about shaving - March 29th 2009, 03:18 AM

If you have no prefrence, ask your girlfriend. If you don't have a girlfriend, quite worrying.


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Re: quesion about shaving - March 29th 2009, 03:55 AM

I prefer my hubby to just leave it alone. No shaving necessary. I like it just how it is. But every girl is different and will have different preferences.


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Re: quesion about shaving - March 29th 2009, 06:36 AM

Really it's all on how she likes it... Ask her!
Mine asked me about it... She wasn't sure... So I told her I went all the way gone...
She didn't like it too much... And that's how she found out she didn't like it all the way...
Yeah now she gets to see where she likes it when it's growing back.
And hey... It's hair... It'll grow back!

And if there's no "her" in the situation... Who cares? Do what YOU feel like doing! You could always just test the waters and experiment what YOU like... Cuz it's not like your friends are gonna say "I like'd you unshaven better".


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Re: quesion about shaving - March 29th 2009, 01:26 PM

they like it cleaned up but not completely shaved, just not everywhere
   
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Re: quesion about shaving - March 31st 2009, 11:34 PM

personally, i dont care if he doesnt shave as long as i dont have Chubaka jumping out at me everytime i try to do my bf a favor [[ ;]. ]]. needless to say, if he doesnt shave, i'd like him to trim. i dont like him being shaved. looks like a grubworm with a turtle neck...i dont like that. lol.

but ask your gf. it's nothing to be ashamed of. in fact, she'll prolly be happy that you care about her opinion in that matter of business.


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Re: quesion about shaving - March 31st 2009, 11:52 PM

I've never had sex with a guy since I'm a lesbian. But with females, I don't really care; I'm fine with whatever. I let her decide and I want her to do what she is most comfortable with. I guess I personally prefer trimmed though.


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Re: quesion about shaving - April 1st 2009, 01:09 AM

Agreeing with the above posts... not shaved but TRIMMED. I don't like forrests but some people do... as long as you keep the hair managable... like no dreads rofl



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Re: quesion about shaving - April 1st 2009, 04:04 AM

When you have a partner, you should discuss their specific preferences, but if you're looking for general population tendencies, I can give you my opinion lol.
People are hairy. We're mammals. If you wanna have sex, you have to deal with hair, male or female. So I'd prefer hair.


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