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Angry Soft :( - March 4th 2012, 02:27 PM

My boyfriend and I were having sex and we decided to switch positions, it only took a few seconds and as soon as I grabbed him to guide him in, he was as soft as jello, we have done it many times, this has never happened. Is something wrong?

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Re: Soft :( - March 4th 2012, 02:30 PM

Maybe when switching positions something accidentally hurt his oenis and that's why he went soft. That the only thing I can think of cuz I dont have much sex experience. Sorry I couldn't help more. If you need anything feel free to PM me.
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Re: Soft :( - March 4th 2012, 03:40 PM

Ah, I've had this problem before. It does happen, I don't think anything is wrong. In my experience, switching positions can sometimes make that happen. He just lost his boner; try not to get too upset about it. It happens, and I doubt anything is wrong.

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Re: Soft :( - March 4th 2012, 08:04 PM

Nope. Happens sometimes.

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Re: Soft :( - March 4th 2012, 08:59 PM

As others have said, it's normal & happens sometimes.
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Re: Soft :( - March 4th 2012, 11:35 PM

There's nothing wrong with him, men have their moments. Sometimes, as happens when us, a quick change can really lose a moment and cause things to need restimulation. This happens to me when switching positions, the mood is lost, and I need a moment to feel comfortable moving on. Men, it's just more obvious, since the hardness is gone. But it's normal, don't worry, you're not unattractive or something, just re-foreplay and get the mood back.

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