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First time - April 3rd 2012, 12:08 AM

So myself and my girlfriend have been together a while now. And... I love her. Much as I always thought love was BS, if I'm honest, I can think of no other explanation for the way I feel about her, and she loves me too.
Anyhoo, we decided that the time is right, basically, and that in about a month we're going to lose our respective virginities to each other. So here's the question:
What should I do to make it perfect for her?
I'm not talking technique, I mean how to make it romantic and comfortable and above all enjoyable for her - for both of us, actually.
She's decided she'll probably get the implant at some point but for now we're going to use condoms, so that's covered. So I'm wondering... what d'you reckon? Candles? Music? Or just simplicity and honesty?

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Re: First time - April 3rd 2012, 12:11 AM

keep it simple and honest. communicate with each other and just keep it comfortable feeling. there isn't a reason for it to be awkward.
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Re: First time - April 3rd 2012, 12:20 AM

I'd say keep it simple and hosent but I'm a virgin so I don't know any good advice for sex. Just make sure she's comfortable with everything and make sure you are too, that's all I can say
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Re: First time - April 3rd 2012, 05:38 PM

I'd say keep it as simple as possible. If you make a huge production out of it, it's just going to make you both more nervous than you'll already be. Ask her what she'd like, tell her what you'd like, just communicate. It's going to be special no matter what you do. Just don't put too much pressure on each other. Enjoy being in love & connecting on a while different level with sex. <3


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