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Re: What was your first kiss like? -
April 11th 2012, 03:20 PM
Uh, reading these things, I feel slightly privileged. :P
My ex was wonderfully romantic, so he took me up in the rafters of the diner in town. He held me for the longest time, talking quietly with his lovely voice and telling me how much he missed me and how he definitely liked me. Then he said he hated how he always planned to do something, then never actually could because he'd be afraid to do it. And then he kissed me. Several times. And believe you me, he was a good kisser. It wasn't unpleasant at all. In fact, the only bad thing about it was that I was so anxious about not being able to kiss as good as he could, lol.
Yup. That was the guy I was in love with. Damned idiot. I still miss him, though.
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April 11th 2012, 04:35 PM
My first kiss was...a slight surprise. It was my very first boyfriend, and on the bus ramp after school, he came to me and said a friend of mine told him I'd never been kissed. I made a mental note to kill her later, but I blushed and told him it was true. He looked at me for a second and slowly started to lean forward, but he didn't go all the way. I leaned in a bit to meet him halfway and we kissed, and I felt tiny little butterflies. Guy later turned out to be an ass though, I hate the idiot.
That was my first ever kiss, but my first kiss with my current boyfriend cannot be ignored and I will NEVER forget it. We had been together at a convention with 2 mutual friends for 4 days. It was the last day, and I was ready to tell him how I felt. I handed him a little note with my feelings, and we were pretty quiet because our 2 friends were sleeping right there. He quietly said he liked me too, and I was very happy. We looked at each other for a minute, then at our friends, sleeping right next to us. I looked back at him, then them one more time. When I was sure they were asleep, I leaned in and we kissed. Our one friend, Frank, who had been playing around and trying to hook us up the whole 4 days, was not asleep. He had his eye just barely open so it would look like he was asleep. He then proceeded to roll around the floor, kicking and fist pumping the air, giggling and laughing like an idiot. He did this DURING the kiss, we hadn't even pulled away yet!
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April 11th 2012, 05:10 PM
First was... forgettable.
First with my current girlfriend though was interesting, I was holding an umbrella due to rain (naturally) when she kissed me... I tried to put a hand somewhere more appropriate eg head or something, ended up hitting her in the back of the head with an umbrella. It was hilarious.
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April 11th 2012, 08:52 PM
Mine was kind of cute. It was the night before my 18th birthday and I'd never kissed ANYONE before, so she was telling me that if I kissed her before midnight, she'd cuddle and kiss me as much as I wanted on my birthday. But I was too scared and eventually admitted I didn't know how. Eventually we just kind of.. did. Except she tried to speak at one point and I kept kissing her which was a bit strange. But funny.
It wasn't at all awkward or anything and since it was dark, she didn't have to see me blushing and biting my lip.
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April 11th 2012, 09:39 PM
was suprising, cute and scared this bajesus out of me, i was taken by suprise so i didnt know what to do :P i went round to his house to watch a film (we were just friends at the time but i really liked him) and he kept going on about glow in the dark stars in his room, i thought it was halarious and cute that hed got them but hey, anyway he insisted on showing me them so led me upstairs and put his hands over my eyes, when he let me look he was right in front of me, it was all dark and quiet i was about to talk and he kissed me.
i was startled at first but it was really sweet i love him so much
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April 11th 2012, 11:43 PM
My girlfriend and I were watching Spirit (the movie about the horse) on her couch, and I remember being absolutely scared out of my mind. We spent a few minutes just gazing at each other, and then it happened, and it was wonderful. I wouldn't have had it any other way. Although, this all happened during the allegedly sad part of the movie (apparently one of the horses almost dies), and the next day my friend asked me if I cried during the movie. I said I didn't think it was sad, and she was concerned for my sanity.
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April 12th 2012, 12:46 AM
Mine was alright. My then boyfriend's cousins pressured me into kissing him, so I finally gave in and did! It was awkward having them right there, but it was okay....until my older "brother's" saw.
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Re: What was your first kiss like? -
April 12th 2012, 01:11 AM
Mine was with my Ex- It was horrible, he was GROSS!! YUCK, drunk, smoking and pinned me against a wall. i wish it was with my fiancée , our first kiss as a couple was Amazing.
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April 12th 2012, 02:14 AM
terrible, I couldn't stop brushing my teeth, and washing the sliminess out of my mouth for over 2 hours afterwards. They just didn't make toothbrushes, mouthwash, SOAP and water 'anti-bacterial' enough!!! but then again, he wasn't all that great of a kisser.
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April 12th 2012, 07:21 AM
It was very awkward. Neither of us knew what we were doing and I was the one who took the lead based on advice from my friend. It was too wet, sloppy, and too hard of a kiss. It felt like he was trying to implant his jaw in my mouth.
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April 12th 2012, 09:59 AM
It was with my friend at her birthday party, and it was truth or dare, haha. Neither of us really knew what the hell to do, but hey it really wasn't that bad.
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April 12th 2012, 11:58 AM
My first kiss was kinda funny. We had gone to get subs before the football game that night (I got tuna salad sub. Stupid me.) and then we got back and had like an hour and a half until the game so we were hanging out at the gym and he took me into the stairs and kissed me. It was the first kiss for both of us so we didn't know what we were doing. I was too eager and accidentally crashed teeth together cuz I was smiling. Oh by the way he doesn't like tuna salad subs. Haha I'm sure I tasted yummy. He said he enjoyed it tho
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April 12th 2012, 12:19 PM
It was a week before my 15th birthday (so I was 14) and the guy was 16. He was in my drama group, and had asked me round to his to help him learn his lines (I guess this is where the alarm bells should have started.)
And omg it was awkward.
I'd been there a few hours, and we were just messing about when he said “Hey, haven’t you left yet?” So I pretended to storm out in a huff and stood in the hall for a couple of minutes until I gave in, and went back to the lounge and then hugged me and said sorry. I was almost sat on his knee, so I shifted so I was on the couch next to him. I wriggled a bit on the sofa, and he told me not to and ‘hit’ me over the head slightly. I said “Oi, that’s mean!”
He said “No, it was necessary”
I said “Mean”
“Er.. No”
“Er… Yes”
“Nope”
”Yep”
“No”
“Yes”
“Well maybe it was a Yes”
”Definitely Yes”
Because of how I was sat, our faces were really close – like 5 inches apart. Then I think we both realised we were talking about whether or not to kiss.
He said “But what if it’s a no”
I said “Well, if it’s a no but you say yes, then you haven’t lost anything. But if it’s supposed to be a yes, but you say no, then you’d never know it was a yes.”
He said very quietly “but what if it really is a no.”
I replied “Just try.”
He then leaned in the rest of the way and kissed me.
Omg looking back on it it was so cringey pahahaha. Not to mention he then asked me out and dumped me (via Facebook) 4 days later.
And that, save for a drunken kiss in December, is my sexual history xD
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April 12th 2012, 12:28 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by asthenophobia.
It was a week before my 15th birthday (so I was 14) and the guy was 16. He was in my drama group, and had asked me round to his to help him learn his lines (I guess this is where the alarm bells should have started.)
And omg it was awkward.
I'd been there a few hours, and we were just messing about when he said “Hey, haven’t you left yet?” So I pretended to storm out in a huff and stood in the hall for a couple of minutes until I gave in, and went back to the lounge and then hugged me and said sorry. I was almost sat on his knee, so I shifted so I was on the couch next to him. I wriggled a bit on the sofa, and he told me not to and ‘hit’ me over the head slightly. I said “Oi, that’s mean!”
He said “No, it was necessary”
I said “Mean”
“Er.. No”
“Er… Yes”
“Nope”
”Yep”
“No”
“Yes”
“Well maybe it was a Yes”
”Definitely Yes”
Because of how I was sat, our faces were really close – like 5 inches apart. Then I think we both realised we were talking about whether or not to kiss.
He said “But what if it’s a no”
I said “Well, if it’s a no but you say yes, then you haven’t lost anything. But if it’s supposed to be a yes, but you say no, then you’d never know it was a yes.”
He said very quietly “but what if it really is a no.”
I replied “Just try.”
He then leaned in the rest of the way and kissed me.
Omg looking back on it it was so cringey pahahaha. Not to mention he then asked me out and dumped me (via Facebook) 4 days later.
And that, save for a drunken kiss in December, is my sexual history xD
"Cringey"?
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April 14th 2012, 05:08 AM
Mine was a month ago with my now boyfriend. It was perfect. We were on a school trip at a University and he asked me to go for a walk, and he asked me to be his girlfriend and then kissed me. It was a little awkward because I was so worried I was going to do something wrong
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April 14th 2012, 07:05 AM
Mine was... awesome - and a kiss that forever will give me the chills.
It was with a girl I really liked (and still do).
It happen at a party (not a teenage party), but a nice party and I forced her to hold my hands. The whole night I teased her, cuddled with her, held her hand, and just talked to her. Toward the end of the night, I told her I had to leave, and she got up and gave me a hug (a 6-10 second hug), and when we pulled away, we naturally just kissed. I don't know who moved in first, or how it happen, but it did... Then she laid back down. I was alittle dizzy, but I recovered!
Anyway, that was my first kiss!
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April 15th 2012, 01:09 PM
Mine was disappointing. He was walking me to my house through an icky, weed-stricken alley way and just before he said goodbye he asked if he could kiss me. Beibg totally shocked and stunned I think I said, 'I guess..' and he did it and walked home. It was like a last minute desperate want and I was glad I was nearly home so I could properly clean my mouth after wiping it straight away. I felt bad. I now know he wanted to be my girlfriend and kiss me do he could tell his friends he had 'kissed a girl.' I felt so dirty and still do :/
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April 15th 2012, 03:40 PM
A dry peck on the stairs at school. There was no one else around. It took me ages to actually get up the courage to kiss the guy, we stood there for ages, me keeping on backing away every time he came near me. And then we kissed quickly and then it was done. xD
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April 15th 2012, 10:12 PM
Okay I'm a 14yearold girl. My first kiss....was......exceptional <3
so the guy that I had liked for months called me back in December and we talked for hours. Then...well we talked about why I cut myself...and suddenly he just sorta told me out of nowhere that he has feelings for me and wanted to give me a chance but the only thing that wa sin the way was that he still had feelings for his ex. My first responce was "...really?...you really like me?" Haha great nite. Anywho...a few weeks later he started going out with his ex, my bestfriend, and he knew that I had feelings for both of them (bi). This was their 4th time going out. didnt last. like usual. 2 weeks later I cut myself again and stopped eating. then my grandpa died and all in all i was having a horrible week. That saturday was our show choir performance at the highschool. It was also the day that his ex and a bunch of our friends were leaving to go on the March For Life. After the performance and everyone had left, I was walking around and he saw me and called me out and we started talking for a while. He started playing around with my bangs (they annoy him heehee) and then we walked into the lunch room. It was dark and vacant. We were over by the stage when he put his hands around my waist and asked me "why don't you eat"
"....skinny is the closest I can be to perfect...it feels good....."
"Then why do you cut?"
"...."
"please don't cut, tay" he said then, putting his arms around my torso and hugging me. We hugged for a good minute, me rocking on my feet cuz hes a little taller than me. He kissed my cheek. I kissed his. Then he did again, but closer to my lips. Then I did, even closer. Then....he made out with me. Maybe...12 seconds. It was really...hot and intense, yet soft and passionate. Then outta nowhere we hear his name being called and I ran for it.
20 minutes later, he found me again. We met in a hallway and again we were alone. We couldn't help but laugh a little. It was then that he said that his MOM had seen the whole thing, and told him "you're dealing with the drama, not me" he asked me how it was for me. I started blushing a lot and said one word "wow". He said that he had to get back so his mom didnt expect anything. He hugged me again and kissed me again. Longer and slower. Still so perfect. When we pulled away, and our lips were almost touching, he whispered "I have to go...."
"I wish you didn't have to leave...."
"I'm sorry..."
"...its okay. Don't be sorry"
he kissed my lips quickly and ran his hand down my arm, once reaching my hand, held on for a second before letting go. Later that nite we had another performance. Sorry...we didn't kiss again. But he did tell me that it was amazing for him. and that he doesn't want to resist me. Then around 2:00 am, when i was about ready to fall asleep, he texted me one last time, saying "I love you, tay. Goodnight <3"
....that was in january. I still love him, but we aren't together yet. we should be though, I'll leave it at that.
so yep. my first kiss(es)
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April 16th 2012, 12:05 AM
I hated my first kiss. I was 14 years old, and I wasn't even dating this guy - we were just two people who kind of flirted in class. He wrote me a note telling me he liked me and that I was really cute, and asked if I would give him a little kiss. I told him sure, because a little kiss wouldn't hurt. After school, instead of going straight to the bus, I met him in the hall and when the halls cleared out, he grabbed me and shoved his tongue down my throat.
It was the most disgusting thing in the world.
The next day he asked for more, but I told him I think we should just be friends....
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April 16th 2012, 12:47 AM
im 27 my first kiss was 2 months back from a girl who used me as i was heading home from a holiday in Edinburgh i live and learn
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April 19th 2012, 05:30 PM
My first kiss was sweet and innocent. I was 13 & at a public pool, and this boy was there I liked. We were swimming around and flirting, then he asked me if I wanted to go for a walk. I said yes, so we went out by the field near the pool & stood there talking forever. He then told me he liked me, I told him I liked him too & then he kissed me. It wasn't extremely long & it wasn't horrible. We then proceeded to kiss throughout the day.