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Unhappy scared as hell. - September 1st 2010, 05:07 AM

I might be pregnant. I'm 15 1/2. I can't be pregnant.

2 weeks ago I lost my virginity to a close friend while we were both under the influence. I don't remember details but we are both pretty sure he pulled out. Not like that means it's impossible to still get pregnant. we DIDNT use protection. I was supposed to get my period a week & 1/2 ago. Hasn't happened. I took plan b and they said it might mess up your period but there's still that possibility. I'm just really scared. I can't have a kid because he wouldn't do shit and I would be all alone. And I'd have to give the baby up. Worst feeling ever.

I know hysterical pregnancy is an option but it's whatever. I just need some support.

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Re: scared as hell. - September 1st 2010, 05:19 AM

I know this is going to sound like the most obvious thing in the world, but you've got to take a test. That will help ease your mind and then you'll know.


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Re: scared as hell. - September 1st 2010, 06:03 AM

I agree, take a test.
From there if you are pregnant you can look into your options.
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Re: scared as hell. - September 1st 2010, 08:11 AM

Take a test, and discuss this with your doctor! Might I, as a humble forum user, recommend you wait to have sex, as you can see, it causes more harm then good when underage, not to mention it's a felony called Statutory Rape and you can be labeled as a sex offender for life.


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Re: scared as hell. - September 1st 2010, 08:37 PM

I know its scary, and I'm sorry you are going through this.

How long after sex did you take Plan B? The sooner, the more effective... in my opinion its just the plan B messing with your cycle. Even taking it close to the 72 hour mark its pretty darn effective.

Like the others said, take a test if your period doesn't show. Its the only way to know for sure. Good luck, and try to let this be a learning experience. We all let our hormones get the best of us sometimes.


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Re: scared as hell. - September 1st 2010, 09:31 PM

I was 16 when I had my first pregnancy scare. I took the plan b pill and my period came right on time. I recommend taking a test. That way you can know for sure. IF youre stressed, that can affect your period as well. Let me know how it goes... PM me if you need to talk!
   
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Re: scared as hell. - September 2nd 2010, 02:31 AM

Plan B really does screw your period up. Mine was messed up for the month after I most recently took it. Also, like someone else said, the sooner you take Plan B the more effective it is. This option is even more likely the sooner you took.

Also, you said you had sex two weeks ago and were supposed to get your period a week and half ago. If you were right before your period and had sex it's less likely you could get pregnant, although not impossible. But add the plan B to that on top of it (if you took it within 72 hours) and not only should you be fine, but it almost certain messed up your period.


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Re: scared as hell. - September 2nd 2010, 06:16 AM

I bet you anything its the Plan B. I took it once after and well I didn't get my period for three and half weeks after my normal period. So don't worry and if your still scared just take a test.

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Re: scared as hell. - September 2nd 2010, 06:52 AM

Things will be fine. If you are pregnant there are alot of choices. you do need to take a test if it comes up negative and you still haven't started take another one in about 2 weeks. if it comes up positive or doesn't u may want to go to the doctor. And yes plan B can mess with you period, but you should be starting soon. I hope this has helped.
   
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Re: scared as hell. - September 2nd 2010, 05:31 PM

I agree with the above posters. You will feel better if you just take the test so you know for sure. From there we can help you. You do have options. I wish you the best of luck and everything works out and your not pregnant.

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Re: scared as hell. - September 2nd 2010, 06:35 PM

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I know hysterical pregnancy is an option but it's whatever.
I'm not really understanding what you mean by that




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Re: scared as hell. - September 2nd 2010, 07:18 PM

You took plan b.. so your odds of being pregnant are slim.
Stop stressing and wait for it to come


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Re: scared as hell. - September 2nd 2010, 10:31 PM

It's gonna be alrighttt :]]
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Re: scared as hell. - September 4th 2010, 02:37 PM

As said...you took Plan B and that's what's making your period late. You'll be okay; it's just the hormones and whatnot. Take a test if you really must to ease your mind.



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Re: scared as hell. - September 4th 2010, 03:01 PM

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I'm not really understanding what you mean by that
hysterical pregnancy is like.. fake pregnancy. the body thinks it is pregnant, but conception has not occurred.
   
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Re: scared as hell. - September 4th 2010, 05:20 PM

Exacltly like David says. The woman works herself up so much and believes she is pregnant and the body will take the body of a pregnant woman without being pregnant. Such as cravings, cramps, back pains, the belly, ect.


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Re: scared as hell. - September 5th 2010, 10:35 PM

My brothers girlfriend took plan B just a couple months ago, it caused her period to be a month and a half late. I'm one who did get pregnant while losing my virginity, however it was a date rape. Regardless though. I don't know where you're from but, most dollar stores // dollar trees have pregnancy tests for a buck. You could get one of those and test. If it's negative, you may want to go see your family doctor and let him // her know that your period is very late. Good luck!


   
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