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Question They don't know....... - March 31st 2011, 01:19 PM

i'm 16 and I have a family who thinks that they knw it all and that they're the most wisest in the land. I may be a mother to be...but its hard to tell people who sit and criticize all those teens that are. I plan on being someone and making something out of myself, and with or without them doing what I have to do. I want to make them eat their words and show them that they are wrong about all teen moms. The last time my mother knew something about the possibility of me being a mom she told my i had potential and called me a disgrace. Since then, its been hard to even go to her. She hasn't done anything to help me find out, and I doubt she is, and therefore, I'm doing this on my own.Truth be told, I dnt care what they think of me because they don't know what I'm capable of and they don't believe in me...my friends and my bf don't know how I feel and now I'm reaching out to find someone that does know the feeling, not exactly but almost, I'm looking for a new friend. Someone that I can talk to and get to know, and come to love as a sister or brother. I'm trying to find someone else to help me through this because they will never truly get it.email me....ty39deirdresloanat yahoo.com
   
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Re: They don't know....... - March 31st 2011, 01:20 PM

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i'm 16 and I have a family who thinks that they knw it all and that they're the most wisest in the land. I may be a mother to be...but its hard to tell people who sit and criticize all those teens that are. I plan on being someone and making something out of myself, and with or without them doing what I have to do. I want to make them eat their words and show them that they are wrong about all teen moms. The last time my mother knew something about the possibility of me being a mom she told my i had potential and called me a disgrace. Since then, its been hard to even go to her. She hasn't done anything to help me find out, and I doubt she is, and therefore, I'm doing this on my own.Truth be told, I dnt care what they think of me because they don't know what I'm capable of and they don't believe in me...my friends and my bf don't know how I feel and now I'm reaching out to find someone that does know the feeling, not exactly but almost, I'm looking for a new friend. Someone that I can talk to and get to know, and come to love as a sister or brother. I'm trying to find someone else to help me through this because they will never truly get it.email me....ty39deirdresloanat yahoo.com
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Re: They don't know....... - April 1st 2011, 02:48 AM

If you're trying to have a baby to prove a point to your parents, I'm afraid you're going to be very disappointed with the outcome. No, not all teen mothers are bad... There are some who take great care of their children. However, they ALL struggle. And in that realization, you'll just be proving them right. But best of luck... If you are pregnant, I hope everything works out well for you. I just hope you're not trying to get pregnant to prove a point. That's a very, very bad idea... and probably also a very immature one, at that.


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Re: They don't know....... - April 3rd 2011, 12:43 AM

My suggestion to you would to go buy a pregnancy test which you can purchase at any local pharmacy where the condoms are. Make sure you read the directions carefully and follow them for accurate results. From there see if you ARE pregnant, if you are you'll have to go in and see your doctor.





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Re: They don't know....... - April 3rd 2011, 04:25 AM

Before doing anything else, take a pregnancy test. You can get them almost anywhere, even a gas station or a dollar store. If you are, you need to see a doctor, even going to a free clinic or a place like a planned parenthood would be better than not seeing anyone. By visiting a clinic they'll be able to go over your options and everything with you. If you ever need support or someone to talk to I'm here for you. Just PM me or e-mail me, whichever you prefer.


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Re: They don't know....... - April 3rd 2011, 07:28 PM

I'm really, really sorry that you don't feel supported by your parents.
It's not easy, going through something like a possible pregnancy without the support of those close to you can really hurt. ~ I'm glad that you're reaching out, and that you're willing to do what you have to do for your health and, if you are pregnant, the health of your baby. But you do deserve to be backed up by those who love you. Have you ever tried talking to your friends, family, and boyfriend? It seems like you have a lot going on here, and are convinced that they don't, won't, or can't understand. But you'll definitely never know unless you tell them what you're feeling, and ask them to be there for you. They might very well surprise you.
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Re: They don't know....... - April 12th 2011, 05:54 AM

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