Female Advice Preferred: ugh! bad situation....

[XHaters_Make_me_famousX]

so there is a 75% percent chance that i am pregnant with this guy that i used to like, but i hate him now. he doesnt like me. and he is trying to get with my best friend when he has a gf. i dont know what to do. we both want a baby... just not with each other. so what should i do?
any advice??

[iHEAVENn]

Get a test from the store, pee on it, find out if you are pregnant or not.
If you are, make a doctors appointment as soon as possible.
If you are not, count your blessings and finish high school and do not go back to that guy.

[Aletheia*]

Originally Posted by iHEAVENn

Get a test from the store, pee on it, find out if you are pregnant or not.
If you are, make a doctors appointment as soon as possible.
If you are not, count your blessings and finish high school and do not go back to that guy.

This.

Go to any pharmacy and get a pregnancy test. They're usually near the condoms. You pee on the stick and wait for about 3 minutes for the result to come. It'll show you right on the test. Make sure you read the directions carefully, so you can get the best reading possible, and take the test first thing in the morning since that's when you'll get the best results.

You can also go to the doctor and have them perform a pregnancy test for you. You either pee in a cup, or they take your blood and test it. The blood test is the most common one these days. This is the most accurate way of finding out if you are indeed, pregnant.

If you are pregnant, you'll need to make a doctor's appointment to get checked out and make sure everything is going as planned, and to get the prenatal vitamins you're required to take during pregnancy. This is a must, if you want to raise a happy and healthy baby.

If you aren't pregnant, then get on some type of birth control. Most adults can't handle having kids, let alone a 17 year old. There will be plenty of time to have kids as you get older. These are the years you won't get back.

[Imagine]

I agree with the other ladies.

You need to go to the store to buy a test. If your worried about money, the dollar store has tests there that ARE efficient. Before you do ANYTHING, you need to do that. It will ease your mind. That way it will be easier to decide what you need to do.

After then you need to make a doctors appointment. Try not to stress because stress does delay your period. I hope things get figured out.

We're always here for support, so don't hesitate to ask for it.

Take care.

[metalheadjessus]

I'm sure that you know all about pregnancy tests, and presume that you're talking about what you do should you be pregnant. As others have said; book a doctor's appointment. This is imperitive. Second, you need to decide whether you want to keep it, or go down the other route. Things to consider during making these decisions are: can you financially support a baby between you and the father? Will your education be effected? etc. etc, as well as things like: are you ready for a baby? Remember, though, there are lots of schemes and the like to help young moms financially and with education and support. Whatever decision you make will influence the rest of your life, so think carefully. Obviously there are many options these days: adoption and things are all successful, but equally, you could be a great mom. Your doctor, i'm sure, would be happy to go through all these with you, or whomever deals with things like this. At the end of the day, it's whatever you want to do, and whatever you feel is best

Wether you're pregnant or not, I wish you the best of luck. If you aren't pregnant, then you can thank your lucky stars and take the precautions necessary to minimise the risk of pregnancy in future.

[Atlantis]

If its his baby this either an abortion or goodluck, think about what your baby would want aka to know both of their parents!