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help me. - December 11th 2011, 09:00 AM

heey, everybody..
i thought id start with who i am.. im sammi.. 15.. and pregnant..
my parents arent supporting me.. my bf is the only support i have..
my parents wanna kick me out.. they dont support my younger brother, hes like my baby.. i dont know what to do anymore.. a little bit of help would be great...
   
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Re: help me. - December 11th 2011, 03:34 PM

Do you guys have any other family you can go to? Also, since your boyfriend is supporting you (which is wonderful) is there a chance you can move in with him? And are his parents supportive?

I'm sorry you have to go through this. Being pregnant is hard enough. How far along are you?
I would also suggest going to Planned Parenthood to get some counseling. It's usually free or extremely cheap. They have a lot of resources so they should be able to give you some options,


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Re: help me. - December 11th 2011, 04:59 PM

I'm sorry you're going through this right now. Being 15, pregnant and alone could be extremely hard to deal with.

Is there any other family you could stay with? Someone who would help support you and the baby? Or is it possible for you to move in with your boyfriend for the time being? I'm sure your parents are just shocked, and aren't sure what to do. Right now, it's best to talk to someone about this situation. As Kelly has said, Planned Parenthood offers counseling services either for free or for extremely cheap. I'd look into it.











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Re: help me. - December 11th 2011, 06:12 PM

Hey Sammi I am so sorry to hear that your parents aren't being supportive . Being 15 years old and pregnant can be a pretty hard thing to deal with already without any other problems from your family. It is good that you have your boyfriends support it is really good of him to stick around for you when a lot of guys wouldn't. As the others have already said is there any other family or friends you could go too? Maybe your boyfriend could help you out with a place to stay? if you haven't already gone to planned parenthood and to a doctor it would probably be best to do that soon. I wish you the best of luck with everything hun and I really hope everything works out well for you. You can pm me anytime if you need .


   
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Re: help me. - December 18th 2011, 11:36 AM

Hey Sammi,

This sounds really tough for you and I'm sorry that your parents aren't being supportive. Do you know why they aren't being supportive? Have you talked to them about this properly?

You say your boyfriend is being supportive. Is there any possibility you could stay with his family? It would be really good if you could find yourself somewhere safe to stay, like with his family or with another family member like a grandparent or an aunt or uncle.

If you haven't gone already, I'd recommend going to your doctor. It's really important that you make sure that you're doing all you can to help make the pregnancy go as smoothly as possible, which means following your doctor's advice.

As others have said, counseling might be a good thing to look into as this is a really tough time for you.

I hope all goes well. Take care.


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Re: help me. - December 20th 2011, 05:07 AM

ive been to my dr and im 16 weeks pregnant...
my parents werent being supportive bcz my dad is a COMPLETE ASS.
and yea, i dont need councelling, im coping fine..
im living with my boyfriend and his parents now, his dad worries me a bit...
but his mum is great..
thanks for all the advice.
   
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Re: help me. - December 20th 2011, 05:11 AM

I'm glad things are starting to look up for you!

I'm going to go ahead and close this thread now. If you'd like the thread re-opened, feel free to PM or Kelly (the other moderator on the forum), and we'll gladly reopen it for you, or you can begin a new thread!

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