Just Curious

[thruel00kinglass]

My boyfriend and I were fooling around last night before we had sex. We did this a couple of weeks back too. Recently I have been feeling the PMS symptoms. So last night when we had sex, he came in the condom and we did not realize that every time you have sex that you have to take off the condom and change it. So we used that one condom the whole night until we noticed that it was not on his penis (I felt the condom by my thigh). Throughout the course of the night I kept on having to pee and one time when I did pee a tiny bit of blood came out. I've had sex before but I'm not sure if my cherry was popped then or times before. This morning when we woke up he started to play with me again and he was ejaculating but then stuck his penis inside of me by accident multiple times. He does not think I can become pregnant but I am not 100% sure. I think my period is on its way or should be coming now. If anyone could give me some advice that would be fantastic.


Thank you and happy holidays.

[escape_thereal_world]

There is a chance you could become pregnant since you ended up having unprotected sex. Since it is still within 72 hours since you had intercourse, you can get Plan B - emergency contraceptive - from most pharmacies and Planned Parenthood. Some of the pills can be taken up to 120 hours after intercourse, but the sooner you take it, the more effective it is.

Obviously, you know now that you need a new condom EVERY time you have sex, even if you have sex, stop for 10 minutes, then go again. You need a new condom every time.

The blood could be your period starting, or from irritation from having so much intercourse in a short amount of time. It could have been your 'cherry'. I wouldn't worry too much about that. There are several common reasons why there might have been blood.

And, though I'm not sure how anyone can accidentally go inside of you, it is still unprotected sex which means you could become pregnant.

The chances are low, but there is a chance. If you aren't ready for kids and you are fine with taking it, I do suggest that. Otherwise, take a pregnancy test in 2 weeks or right before your next period (or you can wait to see if your next period comes).

[Aletheia*]

Your boyfriend is wrong; there is always a chance for pregnancy when you've had..even if it's protected. Obviously, you now realize that a new condom is needed whenever you do have sex. 1: It's unsanitary 2: Condom is likely to slip off or break. And, since he ejaculated, and then entered you, there is a chance that sperm was still on his penis or inside the urethra afterwards.

On top of that: the blood. It's likely the blood was caused from friction or a small tear. I've been having sex since I was 16, and though my cherry was popped a long time ago, I still experience bleeding.

As Kelly said, you could still get Plan B since it's within 72 hours. You must be 17 or older to acquire it though, and some of them do cost money if you went to a pharmacy to buy them.

[thruel00kinglass]

Thanks so much shannon and kelly. i sent him what you guys have said and he's starting to reconsider. I'm just going to stay calm and just go about my daily routine and if things start to change (like I think my period should be coming this week) then I will start taking measures. Thanks for your advice and I'll keep you posted

[Aletheia*]

No worries hun.

Just remember to remain calm. Stressing about it could actually make your period not come (I'm sort of in the same situation as we speak). So, just wait about two weeks and test.

[thruel00kinglass]

Thanks so much. I have been experiencing b

[thruel00kinglass]

Breast pain... It's worse than anything I've experienced... I had sex a day after when I was ovulating too

[Aletheia*]

It won't have anything to do with pregnancy. It's way too early to be experiencing pregnancy symptoms. It's only been a few days, and conception takes about two weeks, and symptoms don't begin until several weeks after that. It's most likely due to your period. Breast pain can be experienced during your menstrual cycle as well, even if you've never experienced it before.

Here is another thing you should be aware of: If you stress, obviously you know you could miss your period. But, if you constantly are thinking you're pregnant, your body could put itself into the state of mind that it IS pregnant, even though you aren't. This is called an hysterical pregnancy. So, don't think that every little thing you're feeling or experiencing has anything to do with being pregnant. It's too early to be experiencing any sort of symptoms.