family issues and worried if our families will accept it?

[kidsfromthehouse1]

Well I took a hpt. I just needed to know. Anyway it was positive. And I told my bf who now is supportive. We've been in love 3 months. He knows I'm the one. He wants to someday marry. Ever since we dated we've been in complete love. We both want this baby. And he knows thay I may not ctt because of my history. I'm getting medical help and advice. He wants to get a job. He'll be 16 when the baby's born. But both our families won't be positive about it. His family is African American middle class christian you know the kind that go to church and criticize everyone yet don't follow perfectly either but think just because their gossipping church goers they're holier than thou. We're also of different denomonations. Think they decent moral and everyone should be like them type. I don't respect their type. They think I'm white trash and that I'm a bad influence and ruining him. They never got to know me just stereotyped me it seemed. Also they don't approve of us being in an interracial relationship. Even though my grandma was half black. It's just another reason to be mean and unaaccepting. I worry if his parents will tear us apart. If they'll totally try to mak this worst than it has to be. I worry if his parents will try to push for abortion. So he doesn't want to tell. And for me my aunt has 6 kids. We live in a shack and our relationship is delicate. I worry if she will tell me to get my ass out of here. For both of us we're committed to do what we have to it's just our families who are daunting to face and deal head on with.... Advice??

[Aletheia*]

Nobody can push you for an abortion. That decision is entirely up to you, and nobody can force you to do anything you don't want to do. However, I'm not going to be light with this: Having a baby at 13 isn't going to be the best idea. I can't tell you what to do, and I can't tell you what decisions to make, but a baby at 13 is going to be almost impossible. I highly suggest that you rethink this decision.

Now, obviously, if you decide to keep the baby, you will have to tell your aunt and his parents eventually. A pregnancy can't be hidden for long, and on top of that, you're going to need to seek medical attention as soon as possible. A pregnancy can't go without doctor's appointments, especially at your young age. The baby will need lots of care, including taking prenatal vitamins, and having regular doctors visits while pregnant. Also, lots of medical care after the baby is born as well.

You can visit your local Planned Parenthood, and seek their counseling services. You can find your local PP here: www.plannedparenthood.org

[kidsfromthehouse1]

I'm having him/her at 14. I won't be 13. I've got an appointment set up for my first appointment. I'm definantly getting medical help.. We know we want to do this. It's just how family's going to react. It's going to be hard reason whywe don't want to make it worst.