Really really worried. Help.

[BreezyGirl]

Okay so, me and my boyfriend were messing around, and this has been going on for 2 months, but I got my period last month, but anyways, I gave him a blowjob (sorry tmi I know) and he touched his penis, and then fingered me, he was holding some of his penis while I gave him a blowjob, then he fingered me at the same time.. I swallowed his, you know.. I've also taken a pregnancy test and came out negative, but I'm still really worried.

[makeupshadow]

hmmmm...i have never been in a situation like this but i have read off of the internet that sperm cant live that well when its in contact with air. sure there is a chance of pregnancy but, extremely low. he would have had to have been having intercourse with u to make the chance way bigger of that happening. so most likely, no. maybe next time just have him wear a condom. and if u wanna take a test i hear it takes about 2 weeks to even get a accurate result. i would try not to worry (:

[BreezyGirl]

Thank you. I've just read on the Internet and I've seen both "sperm can live 12 hours outside the body" and "it dies in a few minutes" I'm just really worried though. His hands were dry I believe. There was no white anything on his hand, so that eases my mind just a bit.

[BreezyGirl]

And I did take a pregnancy test, because my period is a bit late, I think because I have been stressing so bad over this, and it did come out negative.

[makeupshadow]

Hmm..I would say Waite it out then..if u start morning sickness or other symptoms then I would go to the dr. They can Test your urine to c if u r pregnant. If that comes out negative to then I don't c how u could be pregnant even by the slightest. But even so there is still a chance...slightly

[Aletheia*]

Did he have semen on his hand while he was fingering you? If so, the chances are slim but sperm usually dies off once it hits air if there isn't anything wet to keep it alive. Since you've taken a pregnancy test and it was negative, I don't think you should worry. Worrying can cause your period to be late, which will only cause more worry on you, so you need to relax. If you're worried you might be pregnant from performing oral sex on him, it's impossible to get pregnant in that fashion.

[Maloo]

If you swallowed his semen, you're not pregnant.

[BreezyGirl]

Also, his hands were completely dry when he fingered me, but I am still late.. I have been worrying nonstop. I'll try to relax, I think I have worried myself sick.

[Koharuchan]

Originally Posted by BreezyGirl

Also, his hands were completely dry when he fingered me, but I am still late.. I have been worrying nonstop. I'll try to relax, I think I have worried myself sick.

Your period is late because you're worried about it nonstop. That's how our bodies tend to react to this kind of stress. Calm yourself down, and try to stop thinking about it. That's the best thing you can do right now.

[BreezyGirl]

Thank you guys so much.

[Jennifer]

I would assume your period is late because of worry. His hands were dry and sperm and air aren't friends. Sperm are like little fish (my best comparrison), they need to swim to survive and since your boyfriends hands were indeed dry. It would be very slim.