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Question Im so confused :( - April 29th 2012, 05:30 PM

Hi guys, I would like to start off by saying I'm nearly 20 years old. I am in a very good relationship and have been for 3 years and a bit now, I have been worried lately that I am bi-curious as I have a very cute female friend I we get on really well and I mean all three of us do, but I lately have started to feel kind of attracted to her, we kissed with my other half's consent, and she loved it and I did too, its just really confused me I want to explore this new feeling but don't want to come across as too weird for her or anybody else, I don't know what I am any more I always thought I was straight but now I don't think I am, I love my man dearly he is my world. I am so so confused I don know how I need to feel, I also don't wan to lose my man, I mean I love him but I am so scared he will look at me weird or differently if I am bi.

so I guess what im asking is do I progress and explore with her ?
what should I do ?
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Re: Im so confused :( - April 29th 2012, 08:27 PM

i would like to say that you don't NEED to feel anything. You are you and that's just fine. But in regards to you boyfriend if he's worth a crap he has to love you for who you are. Bi straight, or gay. often times we complicate thing by telling ourselves what should be. I should be gay because i feel this way towards this person. stuff like that. and this happens all the time in other areas too. people say to themselves i have to have this and I have to be that. in the end it's all futile. just be. that's all anyone can ask of you and that's all you should ask of yourself.

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Re: Im so confused :( - May 1st 2012, 03:42 AM

listen, being any sexuality is nothing!!!!! to be ashamed of or worried about. feelings are feelings. love is love. im bisexual, and no one treats me different. not the guy. sorta the girl but i understand why...its complicated but either way we do love eachother. well...im not really 100% positive, but her love for me is more sisterly....its different for me a little though....well anyway my parents dont treat me any different, no one really does treat me any different. even if it goes against my religion, im not ashamed because i know its my heart, my choise. and its your choice as well. dont let your worries get the best of you. they'll love you all the same


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