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I Love my Bff.... -
August 24th 2009, 03:35 AM
So im pansexual, and my friends all know and there fine with it. Theres just one major issue.. Im in love with my one of my best friends.. and recently we kissed when playing spin the bottle. But as far as I know she is straight. Though I was shocked that she kissed so many girls... it was, our first time playing and she kissed 3 girls. I have only told one of my other Best friends that I feel this way (about a year ago). She thinks I should eventualy tell her my feelings. But I dont want to ruin my friendship with her, or hurt her in any way. Im also terrifed of rejection, which Im pretty sure would happen. Any advice?
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Re: I Love my Bff.... -
August 24th 2009, 04:15 AM
well you could always hint it to her that you have some more feelings for her than just friendship. good hinting strategies are to subtily flirt, maybe a little more NON-SEXUAL contact, like a little more hugging than usual. To be honest the best thing to do is outright ask, or maybe bring up the topic of sexualityand maybe she will confirm that she she is straight. Make sure to keep the pressure off because pressure yeilds bad results.But the best option is to just tell her, rejection is nothing to fear, If you ask and get a "not interested" just kinda shake it off, if you get a "sorry I'm straight" then just say " thought so"
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