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Angry I hate myself - March 17th 2010, 08:00 PM

I hate who I am. I came out to everyone, they're cool with it. Why should they care? I joined my school's GSA. Whatever. Everyone accepts me for who I am. The problem is, I DONT. I hate who I am. I hate everything about me, ESPECIALLY that I'm gay. I don't even know what to do with myself. I spend hours crying about me being gay. No one bothers me about it, well, except anonymously online, but I hate it. I don't even know how to get the point across. According to the internet, and common sense, you can't just change your sexuality. You really are born that way. Which Just... I guess this belongs in the "why me" section, but really, I'm asking for help. How can I accept myself for who I am? I mean, I accept myself for being gay, it just makes everything harder and it sucks. ARGH. This really belongs in "why me." I'm in school right now........ I hate myself. I really do. I just want to be straight.


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Re: I hate myself - March 18th 2010, 10:22 AM

You have some values that you're not living up to about not being straight. Whether or not it's possible to change is a matter of much bitter debate. From what I've seen, I think the answer is: sometimes, maybe often.

At 14, I don't think you should make the decision that you're irrevocably gay. Please keep an open mind about yourself and give yourself some time. My younger sister was lesbian until she was 19, and then decided that she was straight or at least bi, so it has happened.


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Re: I hate myself - March 18th 2010, 10:30 PM

I agree with the poster above me. I've been flipping between "gay" and "bi" as the label I choose to use for a good year and a half now. =b
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