I thought I knew.....

[Fanatic]

I'm soo lost and confused in brain. x.x I don't know what the hell in my brain is thinking because its so hard to think. I feel like I lost my head a moment.....:/ idk why im stressing out about what sexuality i am and where i am. I wanna be lesbian but I feel a little attachment to guys. Help?

[TheLittleNinja]

Hey There!!

Firstly - Don't pressure yourself into having a label, just be who you want to be! We often need to find ourselves as a person before we can judge our sexuality, and often when growing we feel confused about things. Many people start off feeling one thing, and end up feeling another - as with any other topic or emotion - our feelings can change about our sexuality.

Would you consider yourself bisexual? (Where you can like both men and women?).

At the end of the day, just be who you are, don't worry about fitting in with a particular brand of sexuality - hell, invent a new one if you want to!! What I'm saying is, just be who you are, if you like men and women so be it, if you decide you like women more - then great :]

Just chill, and go whereever life takes you! :]

[DeadlySin]

It doesn't matter what you are.
Just be you.
You don't have to label yourself!
You could be bi?
If you seem to like both.
But still you will know in time.
Don't stress out about it, just let things happen.
You'll know eventually.

Good luck. =)

[AmethystDrew]

I know your stress, though I'm the opposite end of it, haha. I wished so hard to just be gay for so long... but in the end, I've had more girlfriends than boyfriends.

As I've always said, it's easier, and causes less pain in the end, to learn to accept who you are than it is to try and force yourself into a label that doesn't fit you. Imagine forcing yourself into clothes that are a size too small. You might be able to get away with it at first, but if you sit down...

[Sidhe.]

Hey there. I can totally empathise with you. If you ever want to talk, I'm here, yeah?
Like the others said, though, there's no point in worrying too much about labels. Just be yourself, whoever that may be.
xx

[Yoshi]

I totally understand where your coming from. I agree with everyone above me, you shouldn't put so much stress on yourself. Forget trying to have an exact label and just enjoy life. You'll eventually find out who you are.