Does she like me or not?????

[Razor242]

So I told this girl I like her and she wasnt freaked out she just said okay but im not bi anymore. I said yeah I know(not wanting her to hear the disapoinment in my voice). Now she gets really close to me and sits in my lap and stuff. she lets me like hug her and hold her and stuff and she will hold me and poke me she may hit me(not to hurt me) and want me to chase her and stuff she would also lean on me. But sometimes like just randomely she will come lean on me then get all upset that she did that im confused.Another thing is her friend gets really close to me smiles at me and leans on me shell make it so our hands touch but wont move hers. but she says shes str8 too. do either of them like me im so confused.

[Pour the Teapot]

why don't you confront this girl and tell her flat out that all her flirting when she says she's straight is confusing you. she has no right to make you feel so distressed. also, i don't think someone can 'not be bi anymore' because you can't change what your sexuality is. chances are this girl is just toying with your emotions one way or the other, and you should definitly tell her that it's not okay.

[Celestial.]

Okay, the first girl:

Sounds like she's giving you mixed signals, which is no doubt confusing for you.
Perhaps the best thing to do would be, like the poster above me said, to talk to her about it. It might be good to have things out in the open, you know?

About the second girl:

It's possible, of course, that she's not being honest about being straight. I mean, it's not uncommon for somebody who's bi or gay to pretend to be straight. But then again, she may not realise that her actions could come across as her flirting with you - again, the best course of action, in my opinion, is to just talk to her about it.

Good luck.
xxx