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LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity Whether you're LGBT, questioning, have gender identity issues, or have entirely unrelated feelings, this forum is here to help with your questions.

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Confused about my sexuality.... - March 26th 2010, 10:58 PM

I am attracted to guys.......and I think girls.

I dont think I am bi, but I admit I do fancy females. Including females from T.V and females in 'real life'

I sometimes fantasize about having a sexual relation with women, but then I feel guilty and I get disgusted with myself, although, sometimes I get really turned on by women..

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Re: Confused about my sexuality.... - March 26th 2010, 11:03 PM

you could just be curious. it happens a lot with peple. and dont feel disgusted with yourself, its your head, your world. theres a term bi-curious, so yeah you might be that. but do you need to label yourself? hope this helps. x


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Re: Confused about my sexuality.... - March 27th 2010, 03:45 AM

I agree with Leanne - you don't need to label yourself. And you don't need to be disgusted by yourself. You're not doing anything remotely wrong.

If you like girls, that's okay. If you like guys, that's cool too. If you like both, that's fine too.

You could just be bi-curious, or you could be bisexual, but, as I said, it doesn't matter what you call yourself. My advice would be to just stop worrying about labels, and see where you end up.

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Re: Confused about my sexuality.... - March 27th 2010, 05:57 PM

Thank you....for the advice........


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Re: Confused about my sexuality.... - March 27th 2010, 11:31 PM

I think you're bi-curious. I am pansexual (I think) but just call it bisexual because it's basically that. I sometimes feel disgusting when I have same sex fantasies, it makes me feel especially bad when people make jokes about "queers" when around me (They don't know i'm a "queer") but I just tell myself I can't help what I like, so I may as well live with it.
   
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Re: Confused about my sexuality.... - March 28th 2010, 02:48 PM

It could be that you're just normal. I ran some polls on several websites some time ago and the results were consistent that of people who identified themselves as straight, more than half the females and a little less than half the males reported having some sexual contact with someone of the same sex. I think it would be good if humanity would just realize that this is normal behavior.


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