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Question Wow this is confussing... - April 6th 2010, 11:10 PM

Ok so Ive been with a girl for almost 11 months but heres the thing I'm semi close with someone whos high up in the canadian music biz like what she says go and ive been talking to her ALOT recently. Yesterday I saw her and person and talked to her for a bit and now I can't get her out of my head. I know like people get celeb and older crushes all the time but like I'm thinking of her more then my own girl.... I can't get her out of my head... I guess i'm just looking for someone to tell me I'm not a bad person I don't have any friends I can talk about this to
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Re: Wow this is confussing... - April 7th 2010, 04:02 AM

Aww. Wow, it's quite simple, as you would need to sit with one and talk about your feelings and do with other, if it doesn't help then you would rather spend time with each alone and you should feel any close bond... It's never easy. I done that before and I hope it works for you.

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Re: Wow this is confussing... - April 7th 2010, 11:06 AM

Sam, you're not a bad person. It's okay to like somebody else. You can't help how you feel, after all. I suggest you talk it through with the girl you're with; that might help clear your conscience. And remember, you haven't done anything wrong, so don't feel bad.


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Re: Wow this is confussing... - April 7th 2010, 10:05 PM

Hey, Your not a bad person at all.
Just remember that crushes and lust can be different from love.
But - saying that - feelings can change. Just take a think about what you want in life


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Re: Wow this is confussing... - April 8th 2010, 01:31 AM

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