Female Advice Preferred: A weird indifference

[Lightning]

Hey guys,

Long story short I've dated my old girlfriend for a while and we broke up because of her grandparents would be homophobic towards us if we got married/had kids..

Ever since then I've been REALLY questioning if it is worth dating women anymore or rather I've grown a disinterest in a romantic way.

It's ALWAYS resulted in them being a cheater, liar, etc... and so it must be because I've had quite enough.

Any advice and females preferred please?

[Soliloquy]

Hey Anna,

I'm sorry to hear about your break-up with your girlfriend. That must be very hard for you.

It's understandable by you might be frustrated after having some bad experiences with dating. My advice would be to take a little break from it for a little while. I wouldn't give up on women completely; it seems to me as though you probably need some time to mend from your previous heartaches before moving on. That is perfectly understandable. It sounds as though you've been quite hurt by these women. You certainly don't deserve that kind of treatment.

As I'm sure you realize, not all women behave in this manner. Someday, you will come across one that genuinely loves you for you. In the meantime, take some time out for yourself. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be single for a bit! Do things that you love to do and don't worry about a relationship. It will come when it comes. Take as long as you need. There is no limit.

With that said, if you are thinking that someday you would like to try a relationship with a man, there is nothing wrong with that. Experimentation is a great thing, no matter how long you've dated the same sex. There is always room for change in any sexuality! After all, as human beings, we are constantly growing and changing. If we stayed the same throughout the course of our lives, the world would be quite an uninteresting place!

Take care, Anna! I hope this helps! xx

[SpiderHan03]

Hey there,

I know where you're coming from and once you get your heart broken so much you kinda just wanna give up. The thing is... you can't let the people in your past determine the people in your future. and yes, it may be hard to trust other girls and thats okay. but not every girl is gonna break your heart. one is gonna make you feel like no one else ever has.

Don't give up!!!