i think i like her....

[riirahh]

how do i kno that he likes me? he said he duz and we kissed but now he just walks past me like i dont exist?? wtf? why please help me....

[taylalatbh.]

You don't want to upfront say to her that you want to fuck her. Whether you like a boy or a girl, that's not the way to do it! If you have feelings for this girl, and you know that she bends your way, just speak to her. She might feel the same for you and you could start up a relationship. The only way you'll know if she feels the same, and whether you can have a sexual relationship, is if you speak to her.

Good luck.

[Paddy]

Start of with a basic friendship? start chatting..
And belive me, it soons turns 'hot' if things go right

take it slow, and enjoy!

[Soliloquy]

Hi Marriah,

I agree with Tayla in that it might not be the best idea to imply that you want to have sex with this girl when you first meet her. If I may ask, do you find yourself to be drawn to her on an emotional level, or is the attraction purely physical? I think it would be good to start by befriending her. Get to know each other. Then, once you are more comfortable around her, tell her that you have feelings for her. You never know, you might find she feels the same way about you!

Try not to rush into sex. You have plenty of time for that. I believe your primary goal should be to establish a caring relationship with her, and then if that evolves into a sexual one, so be it. But sometimes being so blunt about your sexual desires can make a person feel uncomfortable, especially if you aren't too familiar with each other. Take things slowly.

I hope this helps! Best of luck!

[Charlie1230]

I agree with all of the comments. You don't want rush into things. If you like this person a lot become friends and then move from there. Don't just rush into sex. This person might feel uncomfortable about that. Take it slow.
Good luck

[Invert]

no offence but your edited question doesn't make much sense

[taylalatbh.]

[Edited] What he said made sense. The OP changed the post entirely so that it didn't make any sense.

[tomohawk]

Originally Posted by taylalatbh.

You don't want to upfront say to her that you want to fuck her. Whether you like a boy or a girl, that's not the way to do it! If you have feelings for this girl, and you know that she bends your way, just speak to her. She might feel the same for you and you could start up a relationship. The only way you'll know if she feels the same, and whether you can have a sexual relationship, is if you speak to her.

Good luck.

exactly what she has said right up there ......not alot else too say lol

[Soliloquy]

Alright, guys, let's try to keep it on topic, please.

Marriah, your edited post has confused me a bit as well as some other people on this thread. We seem to be talking about a different person now - a guy. Is my assumption correct? Could you please explain? I'm not trying to condemn you for editing your post; that is fine. I just wanted to clarify to make sure I completely understand what you're saying.

In the future, you may want to make a separate thread if you have a question about an unrelated issue, to avoid confusion.

Thanks!

[taylalatbh.]

To OP. I don't understand why you changed the question in this thread as you have already made a new thread containing this same question. If you could return to clarify, that would be great!

Take care.

[Soliloquy]

Since the OP seems to have made a new thread regarding this issue (here), I am going to close this thread for the time being. Please PM me if you would like it reopened.