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LGBT, Sexuality and Gender Identity Whether you're LGBT, questioning, have gender identity issues, or have entirely unrelated feelings, this forum is here to help with your questions.

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Arrow Decided I was straight. - September 12th 2010, 04:09 AM

Well I posted a few threads about how I thought I was bi and the possibility that I liked both men and women. But then I decided and realised that men is all I ever want to be with. I have nothing against gays/bi/lesbians but I've come to the conclusion that I'm straight. I'm sorry if I mucked anyone around.


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Re: Decided I was straight. - September 12th 2010, 05:27 AM

Yah! Congragulations on making the right choice, for yourself! I am glad you did, and proud of you,



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Re: Decided I was straight. - September 12th 2010, 05:51 AM

I'm happy you've come to a conclusion you're comfortable with =) I did the same a few months ago (than promptly changed my mind - yay for indecisiveness!) Don't worry about 'mucing us around' - you needed some advice, and everyone here is happy to help =)


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Re: Decided I was straight. - September 15th 2010, 01:11 AM


And, to the OP, I'm glad you got things sorted out. Just like its a big step to realize youre bi after thinking you were straight, the exact oposite is hard to go thru too.


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Hear my beaten heart exclaim, 'Still, I refuse to let her go.'"

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Oh, how they always wait for me.

If my fear has kept me here only my fear can set me free."

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Re: Decided I was straight. - September 15th 2010, 05:02 PM

Well it's not really a 'decision'.... but don't worry, a lot of people go through a period of questioning and it's good you were able to ask for some advice before you figured it out. Take care (: x


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Re: Decided I was straight. - September 15th 2010, 05:31 PM

I have to congratulate you on this, I sometimes wonder if reassessing your sexuality isn't harder than coming out in the first place. Perhaps you might want to take a deep look at what made you think you were bi, it may be an opportunity to learn a bit more about your sexuality (I know it was for me).
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Re: Decided I was straight. - September 15th 2010, 07:04 PM

These things happen. Teenage years tend to keep us in a constant flux, and things will begin to settle as you grow older. You might also discover that things change rapidly again on you - and you must be open to this as well. Really we are victims of circumstance. You may run into someone who changes your mind.

In any case be true to yourself, and love yourself for whoever you are - because you are extraordinary. No matter what.


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Re: Decided I was straight. - September 15th 2010, 10:12 PM

But to the OP, congrats on figuring things out for yourself (: It must be a lot less pressure and wonder off your back! I wish I was in the same boat there

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Re: Decided I was straight. - September 16th 2010, 04:27 PM

I'm glad you've realised which way you swing, so embrace it and enjoy life
   
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