don't mind if male or female advice. but trouble with friends..

[cbyrne]

Hi there,
I am 16 years old and have been best friends with someone for the last seven or eight years. They are an incredibly amazing person and are definitely my best friend. Now, I currently like this girl, but whenever I masturbate, I always think about this best friend of mine, because they're just really hot and have an amazing body - like huge nipples, and we've talked before about sex etc. I find this really weird and know other people would too. I feel really bad about it but what can I do?
Thanks
C

[BeautifulDisaster96]

Hello there,
Well it's normal to think that after being best friends for many years you may have developed stroger feelings or a sexual attraction to your best friend. This is alright but if you are truwly interested you need to see where that relationship goes and not be leading on other girls. Do you only think of your best friend that way during sexual moments? or do you think you may have feelings for them other wise?

[Jaguar]

People often fantasize about sex with someone they won't ever have sex with when they masturbate. There's nothing wrong with that. As long as your fantasies aren't about something totally inappropriate like sex with small children or inflicting pain on someone I don't think it's anything you need to worry about. If there's ever an appropriate moment to talk to your friend about it, she probably won't be too surprised.