Female Advice Preferred: Soo confused -_-

[aidensmommy]

Okay, I'm going to make this short and simple, I met a girl, who was like my soul mate no doubt we had everything in common but not like in an odd way we talked for hours she was my first/last conversation of each and every day, and well, I ended up going back out with my ex girlfriend so we stopped talking just absolutely abruptly, my ex and I called quits, officially, and well M and I started talking again and it was like nothing had changed she compliments me like i'm amazing, beautiful, blah blah blah, and she told me she loves me, (which she never did before) and then I forwarded her some text that said say what I am to you and she replied with 'my future girlfriend )' should I take this as she wants to finally be together or do you think that she's just playing with me?! please! help!

[Enchanted ❧]

First I want to Welcome you to TH. I hope you feel at home around here.

Secondly, I would say that it all depends on how you much you trust her. I would say that if she waited for you while you went back with your ex that she probably wants to truly be with you. That is just my opinion tho.

Good Luck!

[mae_kas]

Hi there,

I think that you should have a talk about this with her, letting her know how you feel about this and your doubts as the only one to know the answer is her. I wish you the best of luck.

[TheCrowing]

You should ask her about it. You don't have to be straightforward if you don't want to, but it will clear things up if you talk to her about it. You could always bring it up, or ask her like, "future girlfriend, eh?"
See where she stands in this. That's the fastest, easiest, and best way to figure out her feelings for you, as it will be for her to figure out your feelings for her.

<3

[aidensmommy]

Thank you all so much(: I asked her and she said that she isn't ready for a relationship yet but when she is I am her first choice, I just don't want to geet any false hope or for her to lose interest in the mean time -_-

[TheCrowing]

At least you know how she feels about you. =]

That's always a plus.

[aidensmommy]

I thought so....
til all she ever talks about is missing some guy and looking forward to seeing him blah blah blah....
This always happens to me -_-

[Quartet]

Personally that sounds like a bad sign, to be honest.
I would say, she is probably a really nice gal, but if she is still talking about another person, a male person, I'd say you should call that one quits and keep your eyes out for someone else. Doesn't mean she can't be in the back of your mind, just make yourself the first priority, not when she feels ready.
You need to live life for yourself. Waiting for someone to "finally" be interested will only put yourself in a stressful situation.
You seem like an awesome female, I'm certain there are other girls out there that are more than willing to offer you the time of day.

[aidensmommy]

Thank you Melanie, that helped more than you could know.
I am so needy, I hate that about myself, I just do not like to be alone so I'll settle for anything -_-