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liking straight guys! - April 21st 2011, 01:59 AM

So I dunno why but it seems that nearly every guy I find myself attracted to is straight?!
Which is a source of stress cause it means I'm always single
I like girls aswell to some extent, I guess I'm kind of bisexual
My friend uses the term 'homoflexible' to describe me :P
It's only every now and again that I'm properly attracted to a girl however

But yeah I dunno it's annoying cause I've never really had a proper relationship, all my friends are in relationships and have had multiple and I'm constantly disappointed cause I sort of convince myself that the guys I like might be gay and they turn out to be completely straight, like all the time haha

Guys who are really obviously gay more often than not I find really annoying? Which I know is bad but it makes me uncomfortable for whatever reason

I dunno does anyone else find themselves constantly attracted to straight people? It sucks man!
   
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Re: liking straight guys! - April 21st 2011, 02:54 PM

Duuude, I have the EXACT same problem!! It sucks, I know. It's 'cos we are attracted to masculinity in guys, rather than femininity or flamboyancy. There's not a whole lot we can do about it. I've just kind of learned to deal with the fact that more often than not I will be disappointed, but I hold onto the hope that I'll find the right guy someday. I have only ever had one real relationship with a guy, so don't beat yourself up too much about this.



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Re: liking straight guys! - April 21st 2011, 09:59 PM

Yeah I guess you're right in saying that you'll find someone someday :P
The thing is like when? It's mega stress being alone, at least I think it is
Like I have some other problems and I know that getting a boyfriend or whatever won't solve them but I can't help trying to convince myself that it'll at least make me feel kind of better :/
Thanks for replying btw! xD
   
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Re: liking straight guys! - April 22nd 2011, 04:01 AM

There's bound to be someone out their your age or close.

I live 30 minutes away from San Francisco, the Castro District is Gay City, but alas, they are all older than me. I know for sure that I will find someone out there, there has to be someone in my city that is gay, or afraid to come out that I could possibly hook up with.


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Re: liking straight guys! - April 29th 2011, 02:22 AM

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Yeah I guess you're right in saying that you'll find someone someday :P
The thing is like when? It's mega stress being alone, at least I think it is
Like I have some other problems and I know that getting a boyfriend or whatever won't solve them but I can't help trying to convince myself that it'll at least make me feel kind of better :/
Thanks for replying btw! xD
When is a good question. Idk. Just gotta have patience, I guess, lol. Sorry I can't give you a better answer.



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