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Is this normal? - September 25th 2011, 09:56 PM

So I know I'm bisexual, and I'm equally attracted to both sexes.
But lately, I've been feeling so much stronger attractions to girls.
For people who are bi, is it normal to fluctuate like that?


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Re: Is this normal? - September 26th 2011, 01:23 AM

That's definitely happened to me. Sometimes it'll fluctuate from day to day, but sometimes for longer periods of time. Also, being bi doesn't mean you like girls 50% and guys 50%. It's a spectrum, so wherever you fall on it is totally fine


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Re: Is this normal? - September 26th 2011, 01:44 AM

I'm not sure. Just because I like both genders doesn't mean I like both equally. On average I find women more attractive, but I have dated only men.


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Re: Is this normal? - September 26th 2011, 01:46 AM

As Bubbles said, being bisexual doesn't always mean an equal attraction to both males and females. Sometimes you may like one more than the other, and that's fine. Some bisexual people use the idea of percentages to describe their attractions; for example, I have a friend who says that for him it's about 80% men, 20% women, but that's a generalisation because it does change. Whatever you feel is what you should go with, so don't worry about this fluctuation; it's perfectly normal.


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Re: Is this normal? - September 26th 2011, 03:50 PM

Okay. I was just wondering (: Thanks


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Re: Is this normal? - September 27th 2011, 12:33 AM

Since the OP's question has been answered and she seems satisfied with the responses, I'm going to close this. PM me if you disagree.


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