bi-sexual or bi-curious?

[tumblrwh0re]

Riiiiight, well to start off I have a boyfriend and we've been together for 9 months. I used to fancy a girl before I got with him but I just thought it was a phase and stopped talking to her. Now we're back talking again and I went out with her the other day in hers and alls I wanted to do was kiss her. It's so scary. She's gone away on holiday now and I miss her so much. She told me too she wanted to kiss me (she's a lesbian) and yeah... argh, so awkward..

[crissy97]

tht was the same with me kiss her find out wht u r thts wht i did n i found out i am bi

[Revolution]

Hey Jodie,

It's okay to have feelings towards both sexes! This same type of me happened, a few years ago, I developed a crush on a girl while I was with my boyfriend. However, it passed. I just loved my boyfriend, and didn't want to leave him. But I find women attractive, I consider myself bi but preferring men. Kissing her would be a good idea if you didn't have a boyfriend, but cheating would not be a good thing. I would just let your feelings wander, and allow yourself to look around Maybe check out some pictures of girls, and just really think about it. If your boyfriend is very understanding, consider talking to him how you feel. It's perfectly normal to like both sexes.

[Iris. ♥]

Hey Jodie!
There's absolutely nothing wrong with liking both sexes. I agree with what Coffee said. Kissing her while you have a boyfriend probably isn't the best idea. But, you should definitely try to figure out what your heart wants by talking to her some more. I think it will help you figure out if you really are attracted to her. I went through a really similar phase once and I realized I'm straight. The other two posters realized that they're bi. Either one is just fine. It's about finding what makes you happy.