Freaking out T_T

[Roy-kun231]

Okay, so!

I'm really freaking out. Me and this girl Marissa just got into a relationship and suddenly she's stopped talking to me. Unfriended me on Facebook, won't answer my texts, won't answer my calls... And I'm really freaking out T^T I don't know if I did something to make her mad or if I upset her or what. I'm crying so hard right now because I feel like I did something wrong.... I mean, I'm suicidal and I don't know if I can handle this... please help...

[MacGuffin]

Unfortunately, it appears she doesn't want to talk to you, so you probably aren't going to get to find out what happened, at least not for the foreseeable future. Often it is easy for one to jump to the conclusion that they did something wrong or it's their fault that this happened. It can be hard to think something different in a time of crisis. However, it's important to realize that this is NOT your fault. You are not responsible for the way she chose to express her emotions, whatever they may be. That's her own issues going on right there, not yours. And it's unfair to blame yourself for it.

I am sure if you are suicidal it doesn't really help that this happened, especially if you have tied your self worth into this relationship. Once that happens, it feels like the relationship makes you important or special, and when it has problems or it ends, you feel lost and disoriented. This is a common thing in people who have suicidal tendencies; it's very hard for them to stay grounded in themselves because they find themselves unbearable and not worth living. It's important to recognize, though, that this relationship has not made you YOU. You are still the same person you were, with or without it. It may have augmented what was already there, and it can feel like there is an absence of that augmentation, but it doesn't mean you are empty or worthless. And committing suicide over it would not solve any of your problems. Suicide can be very appealing; it seems like a way out of unbearable pain. But in the end, it's really not. It simply takes away a special, valuable life on this planet just because someone stopped seeing they were special and valuable, and that is a very sad thing, for both the suicidal person and the people who love them.

If you want to talk more, PM me. I hope this helped.

[Rooni3]

Maybe she got in trouble with her parents. If its big enough trouble I know my mom would make me shut everything down and take my technology stuff away from me.
And if you don't think its that maybe ask a friend of hers.
Take care (:

[Sythan]

Just take it easy, first of all, you're freaking yourself out for something that could have nothing at all to do with you. It's odd to get in a relationship with someone, then never talk to them again, so I suspect there is some outside influence as to her actions. Take Jordan
s advice, that's what I would say.