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November 16th 2011, 01:58 PM
is it wrong for a "straight guy" to be curious enough to hook up with a bi/gay guy and then claim he is still straight? i mean if its only sex does it actually make you gay? or is being gay come alone with the actual love and caring part?
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November 16th 2011, 02:13 PM
Personally, I don't think it's wrong. I think it's fine as long as you're happy. But generally, if you're attracted to the same sex - you're bisexual or gay. You really don't have to label yourself though.
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November 16th 2011, 05:19 PM
Do what ever makes you feel right inside. Sexuality is more than just sex, its about who you want to connect with on a romantic level. It isn't wrong at all.
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November 16th 2011, 07:34 PM
Coming from a girl perspective, I do not think it is wrong. Everybody gets curious and we do things to stop our curiousity. Doesn't change who we are.
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November 16th 2011, 08:51 PM
Sex doesn't really mean anything. I have straight friends who ask sexual favors from me, they just like to get off. Being gay is the emotional, physical, spiritual, and romantic connection to someone of the same gender. Same with bisexuals but for both genders.
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November 16th 2011, 10:11 PM
Well if you say your just curious I assume that its a phase and you shouldn't feel obligated to label yourself. But on the other hand in my opinion if your having a sexual relationship with someone in the same gender as you, and your attracted to them, technically your gay/bisexual/lesbian. But really, there's nothing wrong with that
 if it makes you happy, then continue doing it. Don't feel like its a bad thing! <3
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November 16th 2011, 10:11 PM
Statistically, almost half of men identifying themselves as straight report having had sexual contact with another male at some time in their teens, so you're not unusual at all.
If you do want to experiment be careful with who, and keep in mind the criticism and possible bullying you're likely to get if you are identified as gay, especially if you're in high school. I don't think it's a bad idea to satisfy your curiosity rather than always wonder about it, just be safe. What just happened?
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November 17th 2011, 02:31 AM
welll i know im bi i was asking for a friend who saidd he would do stuff he just doesnt wanna be considered "gay or bi" i personally didnt think that it made you gay or bi if u hook up with a guy
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