Female Advice Preferred: ilove this girl sooooo much

[maryannemusic18]

kaay well im in love with this girl and she is graduating this year and she has a boyfriend that shes been with for 19 months so almost two years and ive told her i like her but i want to tell her i love her and she has always been there to help me though all my problems but i feel awkward asking her about this

[Miss Adventure]

I doubt I can be much help here. If you really want to talk to her about this, then do it. It might be awkward, but just try to make it as comfortable as possible for both of you. Since you said that you told her you liked her, I'm assuming that this means she already knows you have some feelings for you, you would just be telling her that you have stronger feelings this time. If it makes it any easier for you, maybe you should try telling her everything in a letter and then talking about it in person. That always makes things easier for me :3
Anyway, I hope I helped some.
Good luck

[Squiggly]

If she has been with her boyfriend for that long and she seems happy with him. Do you really wan't to mess that up for her? If she is your friend and she has been kind to you and you care about her? If you really love her you could talk to her about it but it might not make any difference it might even make your relationship awkward. Sometimes the better decisions are the hardest ones to make and they hurt you a whole lot and I know from my own experiences. You just have to stay posotive and if it doesn't work out then move on be happy and don't give up! It's easier said than done I know.

[Celestial.]

Hi there.

Honestly, I wouldn't recommend telling her you love her. If you've already told her about your feelings and she hasn't done anything, chances are that's because she's really in love with her boyfriend - and as Stacy said, do you really want to mess that up? I know it might be hard, but I think the best thing here would be to just let her go. You want her to be happy, don't you? If she's happy with her boyfriend, then leave her be.

However, I'm not opposed to the idea of telling her that you're grateful for all her help. That's another matter entirely, and I think there's nothing wrong with it. Maybe you could get her a card or write her a letter, thanking her for all she's done and wishing her luck in the future. Maybe you could even ask for her number so you can keep in touch? Then if things change between her and her boyfriend, it might be your time to act. But for now, I say let things be, and try to move on.

Take care.