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Girls or Guys??? - April 6th 2012, 04:12 AM

Hey guys!
right now is kinda of a confusing time for me. I'm really into this guy and I want to be with him; but on the other hand my best friend who I've had a crush on for a while now (whose a girl) has been really flirtatious and touchy with me lately. she been mentioning how she think about "playing for both teams"
what should I do??
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Re: Girls or Guys??? - April 6th 2012, 07:53 AM

maybe just talk to her about it. make sure she definitely feels that way so you dont get hurt, and just do what feels right
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Re: Girls or Guys??? - April 6th 2012, 09:36 AM

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Re: Girls or Guys??? - April 6th 2012, 10:53 AM

Hey there,

I definitely agree that you should talk to her about it. It's better to avoid being hurt later now, after all. Also, at the end of the day, the choice comes down to what you want. Who do you feel more for? Do you think this guy you said about is into you as well? If he is, does he know you're into him?

I'm not great with relationship advice, but I don't think it comes down to whether the potential other is a guy or a girl, really it comes down to whether you can see yourself with them, and how comfortable that would be for you.

I hope this has helped a bit, good luck!
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