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Relationships? - April 26th 2012, 09:43 PM

I have issues and I have trust issues. I'm also not in a very confident person either I lost all that when I got in to SH, but i miss being in a relationship but I feel like I can't, sounds odd...

What I mean is the last relationship I was in was about 5 months ago we only went out for 6 weeks but I never really felt like I should be in the relationship. I never felt comfortable enough to talk about my issues with him. I don’t know where it was my depression that made it difficult to trust or weather it was just him. He was a friend, and now we don’t speak since I dumped him…

It's like I will want to go out with a person, we will go out and then I'd just miss being single. Or there will be a new person who I think maybe this is the right guy.
 
I don't know of it's I'm not letting the relationship develop enough or if I'm just being dramatic but I don’t know I want to be in a relationship with someone like me not exactly the same as me but similar so we have something’s to talk about.

I have never been in a relationship when the person has given me butterflies

I know I’m not the only one who probably thinks like this, or is in the same situation..

I guess what I’m really asking is should I really hold back in a situation or should I go for it? Even if it means being venerable?


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Re: Relationships? - April 27th 2012, 12:02 AM

Vulnerabilities come up at every corner, on every street, in every town, in every country. You've vulnerable walking across the street and buying milk products. You've vulnerable no matter where you go. If there's one thing I've learned, it's that you have to let yourself be vulnerable to other things to enjoy life. There's no point in avoiding a risk when that risk could make you stronger and happier. You should put yourself out there, you've got nothing to lose. Take whatever happens after that in your stride and keep the ball rolling.

Trust people. They're not all bad. In fact, there's good in almost everyone.

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Re: Relationships? - April 27th 2012, 10:13 AM

When the right person comes, u'd probably feel it naturally to share things with that person. I think that unfortunately u have to choose well the people with whom u can show urself vulnerable, which doesn't mean u can't trust people, just not everyone is trustworthy, but u have to give them a chance. I explained myself pretty badly
   
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