so devestated

[pursuit-of-happiness]

This guy I was seeing just for a month totally led me on even though he did tell me he didn't want to date. However, his actions were so opposite of just being friends. He would always tell me he liked me and touch me and we were so playful with each other always. It seems like something changed all of a sudden because he started seeing other girls and I found out about it. When I say seeing, he slept with one of them right after we were together and then made out with another at a concert that I was also at and saw him do it. I then realized I couldn't just be his friend but I feel this void in my life without his daily texts and without having someone to go cuddle and hang out with. I honestly don't know what to do with myself. I mean I think he actually did like me and I don't get why things had to happen this way. Its always when hes drunk that he acts like he cares about other girls and not me. I know there is nothing I can do about this situation...I already walked away from it and wrote him a kinda mean letter about how messed up it was what he did to me. Why do I still want him back?

[Silhouette]

You miss who you thought he was, that is why you still want him back.
I'm really sorry that you went through all of this, sometimes people just aren't as trustworthy as we once thought. It sounds to me that he is a bit of a flirt and just enjoys getting attention from lots of girls but isn't looking for anything serious. Are you sure that he wasn't seeing these other girls from the start?
What I would do is when he isn't drunk, ask to talk to him in person. Calmly tell him how you feel and get his side of the story. That way you can get some closure on all of this.

[pursuit-of-happiness]

I really want to contact him but I feel like that just makes me desperate. He just posted a picture of himself with another girl that he is obviously with right now on facebook...like really!?

[Silhouette]

Well do you see him in person at all? Just pull him aside for a quick second to talk, that won't come across as desperate.
And I'm sorry that you saw that picture, I'm sure that must have hurt Blocking him for a little while may not be a bad idea so you don't end up seeing other things you may not want to see.