Hey! i need help!

[poprocksluv]

Hey, I am new but I have a problem and this may be really long. I have a crush and he knows that I like him. It's been going on for the whole school year and he found out 2-3 weeks later. But, he hugs girls and me too. But I'm sure he'a the only one who will play fight with me. Like one time he (and his friend) was touching my butt and then his friend stopped and he continued. So later on we had some vasoline and they dared me to slap home with it. So I did and he chased me around the room trying to get me. Then on my birthday he was giving me "birthday punches" And he only did that to me and no one else. So something bad has happened to me in April and the day I came back to school everyone was really glad to see me. And he came up to hug me. Then I had to tell everyone my story he came up and hugged me again but I was more than a friend hug. He hugged me holding on to my waist and his head was on my chest. And it was a pretty long story and he didn't stop until someone pointed it out to him. On the last few daya of school my friend...he is a boy...asked for my number and my crush asked him for my number from him. In science the good kids (me) and the bad kids (crush) had to go in different classes. I went to get my books and I noticed the bad kids were having more fun than us. So I told him how fun it looked it there and how I wanted to stay. Then he was like "It is,you should stay. We're playing music-the slow songs" then he touched me and was looking into my eyes. So at the end of the day me and my bff were hugging then he came over and hugged both. Then he just hugged me. At 6 sumthin he texted me and told me to sign up for a chatting website. So we were chatting and (you can kiss,hug,fight etc.) And he sent me the kiss one. We text but I usually start it. And we text really late at night sometimes. I just want to know does he like me and how should I ask him out. Thanks!

[SamMarie]

First and foremost, Welcome to TeenHelp. It seems to me that he is giving you a lot of mixed signals there, but the best thing to do is to ask him yourself if he does because he is really the only one that knows. It seems to me he does like you, but don't put your hopes up too high. He could be doing the same things with other girls and you're probably just not there to see it. That's just a cautious way of looking at things, but should be evaluated as well. I think your first step is to find out if he does likes you by just asking him straight up in person if he does. No texts or calling. You can really tell when someone does by the way they answer it and subtle body language. If everything is said and done that you are both interested, take him out for a walk just him and you and ask him out when you think the time is right. It's nice to know where you stand in your relationship with him. Good luck!

[poprocksluv]

Originally Posted by SamMarie

First and foremost, Welcome to TeenHelp. It seems to me that he is giving you a lot of mixed signals there, but the best thing to do is to ask him yourself if he does because he is really the only one that knows. It seems to me he does like you, but don't put your hopes up too high. He could be doing the same things with other girls and you're probably just not there to see it. That's just a cautious way of looking at things, but should be evaluated as well. I think your first step is to find out if he does likes you by just asking him straight up in person if he does. No texts or calling. You can really tell when someone does by the way they answer it and subtle body language. If everything is said and done that you are both interested, take him out for a walk just him and you and ask him out when you think the time is right. It's nice to know where you stand in your relationship with him. Good luck!

I think my only problem is rejection. I have had only one boyfriend and I realised I didn't really like him as I was telling my friends,my best friend told him and he was sad and crying the whole day...after some years I thought about it and now I feel like if any boy did that to me even my crush I would feel so bad...I guess I need to get over that

[PSY]

Originally Posted by poprocksluv

I think my only problem is rejection. I have had only one boyfriend and I realised I didn't really like him as I was telling my friends,my best friend told him and he was sad and crying the whole day...after some years I thought about it and now I feel like if any boy did that to me even my crush I would feel so bad...I guess I need to get over that

When I was around your age, I didn't really know what I wanted in a boyfriend. I can see why you feel bad about what happened with your first boyfriend, and why you wouldn't want to experience that as well... but sadly, you're at a point in your life where everyone is trying to figure out what they want in a partner. Rejection is a fact of life, but don't let that fear hold you back from trying altogether! It's not something you really "get over," because it's going to hurt no matter what you tell yourself. What you CAN do is accept the possibility of being rejected, and reassure yourself that, while it will hurt, it's not going to happen every time you ask someone out. =)

[poprocksluv]

Originally Posted by PSY

When I was around your age, I didn't really know what I wanted in a boyfriend. I can see why you feel bad about what happened with your first boyfriend, and why you wouldn't want to experience that as well... but sadly, you're at a point in your life where everyone is trying to figure out what they want in a partner. Rejection is a fact of life, but don't let that fear hold you back from trying altogether! It's not something you really "get over," because it's going to hurt no matter what you tell yourself. What you CAN do is accept the possibility of being rejected, and reassure yourself that, while it will hurt, it's not going to happen every time you ask someone out. =)

Thanks! I'm just waiting for school to start again so I can actually see him...but I love to text with him he makes me seem like I don't put random things into the conversation!