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Read OUR conversations . . . is my boyfriend busy or avoiding me? - August 3rd 2012, 07:49 PM

I talk to my boyfriend on Skype as we can’t always see each other during the week. I can’t work out if he’s doing this on purpose or if he's generally just busy. I am starting to find it a little insulting and rude.

I have asked him if he's okay and if anything is bothering him and he just said 'Nothing whatsoever, nothing in the world. xxxx'

It has ONLY being happening recently, he talks to me for a little while (less than an hour) and then he ALWAYS has to tell me he's doing SOMETHING, things he could probably do any other time and just stay with me if he really wanted to.


These are the conversations (just the parts in which I feel like he's blowing me off):

[25/07/2012 15:51:22] Anya: Alex? Can we talk? LOVE you. xxxxxxxx
[25/07/2012 15:51:45] Alex: Sorry, can't. As I said, I'm going out in a bit. Xxxx

[30/07/2012 19:35:40] Anya: Alex can we talk tonight? xxxx
[30/07/2012 19:35:40] Alex: No, Anya - I'm not feeling too good right now. Sorry, maybe tomorrow xxx
[30/07/2012 19:57:14] Alex: Anya, I'm going to lay in bed
[30/07/2012 19:57:19] Alex: xxx

[31/07/2012 14:18:31] Alex: I'm going out today too actually - gotta get a membership card for the new gym that opened up recently and is practically next to my place. Xxx
[31/07/2012 14:35:29] Alex: Anya, I'm gonna go see my parents for a bit and then I'm going out. Xxxx

[27/07/2012 12:02:08] By the way, I'm not gonna stay here for long(maybe like 15-20 mins more) cause after that I've gotta go. xxxx
[27/07/2012 12:04:08] Alex: I'll be gone for like the most part of the day. Going out first to do some test at a language school, something to do with an IPL certificate or so and after that I'm meeting with a friend of mine. xxxxxx
[27/07/2012 12:10:50] Alex: I'm gonna go take a shower and I'm going out after that, so I'll have to say goodbye now.
[27/07/2012 12:10:55] Alex: Love you! xxx

[28/07/2012 14:38:38] Anya: You're welcome lets face it you are better at the word association than me Alex! We can talk in a while, if that's okay with you. I love you! xxxxx
[28/07/2012 14:39:17] Alex: I'm gonna spend time with my family today, so I'm going soon! xxxx
[28/07/2012 14:44:25] Alex: See you later, Anya.

[29/07/2012 11:10:36] Alex: I think I'm gonna go and lay down for a bit before I go out with my friend. xxxx
[29/07/2012 11:12:21 Anya: okay, can we talk today? xxxx
[29/07/2012 11:15:41] Alex: I don't know when I'm gonna be home but yeah, if I return later on we'll talk. xxxx
[29/07/2012 11:16:01] Alex: I'm going now, Anya. Xxxx
[29/07/2012 20:03:54] Alex: I do fancy talking tonight but I doubt we'll be able to do so. xxxxx
[29/07/2012 20:04:45] Alex: I'm going to bed earlier tonight cause I wanna clean my room tomorrow morning before I leave for the cinema
[29/07/2012 20:55:52] Alex: Anya, I'm gonna shower and then I'm off to bed! xxxx
[29/07/2012 20:56:47 | Edited 20:57:07] Anya: Okay!
[29/07/2012 20:57:31] Alex: I guess that's goodnight even though it's only 9pm
[29/07/2012 20:57:36] Alex: I love you! Xxxx

[01/08/2012 11:15:02] Anya: Did you get your gym card?! Did you have to sign your name on it?! xxxxx
[01/08/2012 11:15:47] Alex: Yeah, I'm actually going to the gym in a bit cause I'll be busy tonight
[01/08/2012 11:15:49] Alex: xxx
[01/08/2012 11:41:42] Anya: Alex? I'm just going on a walk to the stream with my cousins, love you xxx
[01/08/2012 11:42:12] Alex: Okay, have fun. xxx
[01/08/2012 11:42:14] Alex: Love you! xx
[01/08/2012 11:56:26] Alex: Anya, I'm going to the gym. See you later.
[01/08/2012 11:56:29] Alex: xxxxxx

[02/08/2012 17:07:14] Anya: Can we talk at some point tonight? xxx
[02/08/2012 17:07:46] Alex: Not too sure about tonight
[02/08/2012 17:08:00] Anya: We can at least say goodnight though xxxx
[02/08/2012 17:08:31] Alex: Eh um sure, I might manage to get on skype for that later on. xxx
[17:13:28] Alex: Anya, I won't be staying up late cause I go to the gym early in the morning xx
[17:27:27] Alex: Anya, I'm going to lay in bed and watch some tv or something. xxxx
[17:27:30] Anya: Alex, do you know what makes me feel the most proud? Love you xxxx
[17:27:49] Alex: Don't know. Love you! xxx
[17:29:04] Alex: Just tell me what makes you the most proud. xxx
[17:32:01] Alex: Uhh, I'm gonna relax then, guess you're not there.
[17:32:11] Alex: See you later. I love you! xxxx

[09:02:08]Alex: I gotta go in a bit. xxx
[09:02:22] Alex: gotta hang the laundry to try, take a shower and go to the gym
[09:03:10] Anya: Alex? But I thought we could talk xxx
[09:03:49] Alex: I've got a lot of stuff to do, sorry xxxx
[09:04:44] Anya: But you could go the gym a little later? You actually have all day, if it's open 24/7. Love you xxxx
[09:06:02]Alex: I can go later but I want to go earlier so I'll have the rest of the day free cause I was thinking of meeting with a friend later on
[09:23:03] Alex: Have a good day, I'm going now..
[09:23:09] Alex: Love you xxxxx

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Re: Read OUR conversations . . . is my boyfriend busy or avoiding me? - August 3rd 2012, 08:02 PM

Well I wouldn't like to say for sure.
Have you tried to talk to him about this? I guess its the best way to go. It would be better if you dont come out like why are you avoiding me but be a bit more like is there anything wrong because I feel as if you havent wanted to talk to me... If he Love you then he will tell you whats up or he will make a big thing out of it.

Good luck ley us know what happens

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Re: Read OUR conversations . . . is my boyfriend busy or avoiding me? - August 13th 2012, 04:33 PM

have you tried giving him some space or asking him point blank if hes still wanting to be with you?

its hard to tell if hes avoiding you or making excuses but if he loved you or really valued the relationship to me it would seem as though he would put in a ton more effort to see you and talk to you
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