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Too Strong? - July 14th 2015, 03:41 AM

This is going to be super quick and to the point. I'm a straightforward guy. I don't like to play games and go through a whole process just to have a "sort-of" thing with a girl. If you've known someone for a little while and have developed some serious feelings, is it so crazy to just straight up tell them how you feel? I feel like I'm so old fashioned when I talk to friends because it's all about the subtle games and hint dropping and distancing. I care about someone and tbh I have a short window of opportunity so I don't have time to test the waters slowly. I know everyone's different but how would you feel if someone opened up to you and admitted they had feelings for you in an effort to get a date?
   
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Re: Too Strong? - July 14th 2015, 11:21 AM

I think if I least expected you to open up to me, I'd be shocked. But, if we've known each other for awhile and somehow expected this sometime down the line, then I might be all for it. Besides, whatever outcome it makes, I'd be happy to know that there are still good men in this world who has the confidence to admit their feelings in person just because we've all lost a huge amount of communication in this world. I think you should go for it. If you feel it's right, go for it. Good luck and hope you get the girl.




   
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Re: Too Strong? - July 14th 2015, 04:54 PM

I know how you feel, and it will attract different girls and put off others. So even if you don't get this one, then you can continue your search to find the one that sees the beauty in your confidence.
   
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Re: Too Strong? - July 14th 2015, 10:51 PM

Thanks for the advice! Btw @SamMarie how bad is "shocked"? Lol
   
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Re: Too Strong? - July 15th 2015, 02:37 AM

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Thanks for the advice! Btw @SamMarie how bad is "shocked"? Lol
Shocked in a flattered way no matter what happens




   
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