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Best Friend probs - May 5th 2016, 10:06 PM

Okay, so I am questioning my sexuality, and I think im in love with my BBF. I wrote her a letter expressing my feelings for her, but I am pretty sure she's straight. I mean, she has a boyfriend, but I see her staring at girl's boobs and complimenting a friend's ass. So, any help? I also need someone to read my letter and see if it's alright. Help!!!
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Re: Best Friend probs - May 11th 2016, 06:18 AM

She may be bisexual, but I would be cautious here. I used to think I was in love with one of my best friends, but after some time I realized I was just overly attached. ( I don't have many close friends, so I have trouble deciphering between loving someone, and being in love with someone.)

Try giving the emotions some time to simmer for a while, make sure you're absolutely sure you want to pursue a relationship with her, before taking that leap.

Secondly, be wary of her sexual orientation. She may only be checking other girls out as a form of comparison (her boobs are so much better than mine, I'd like an ass like that, ect.) which many girls do, even the straight ones.

If you're sure you'd like to pursue a relationship try not to set my hopes too high, so the sting of rejection will hurt less, and the joy of acceptance will feel better.

Also, I'd be more than willing to proofread your letter if you like.
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Re: Best Friend probs - May 11th 2016, 07:05 PM

Thank you Alexis! Ill PM you the letter. I think she's either bi or lesbian, because she HAS tried to kiss me. But that was three years ago...
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Re: Best Friend probs - May 11th 2016, 08:02 PM

When she was eight? I don't think eight years old normally go around kissing people outside their family in a familial/friendly way. But even so, this does not mean she's bi or a lesbian. Your identity, as well as sexual orientation, is still developing at eleven. Give it a few more years before you really decide anything. Plus, if she's still showing signs now, she may be bicurious or just likes to goof around. I know when I was eleven, my friends and I goofed around and even acted "pretend" lesbian.
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