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Question I'm in love with my bestfriend - January 16th 2017, 04:17 PM

Okey, so there is this girl that i went to same school with from 1-3 grade. I was just a small kid but what i have heard from my parents that i was in love with her, lol. Now we just started 10th grade and we are now in same class. We started to get in touch this last summer and we are really good friends. We are with eachother everyday and my problem is that i have fallen for her. She gives me these vibes that you do whek you are in love but then she hooks up with others at partys. I don't know what to do, she is my bestfriend and i'm in love with her. Should I tell her or don't?
   
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Re: I'm in love with my bestfriend - January 16th 2017, 06:17 PM

Hey Luke,

Thank you for reaching out to us here at TeenHelp.
It sounds like this girl is a really good friend, I'm glad you have such a good friend in your life. I think you'll never know how your friend feels until you let her know about your feelings. Using the word love might be a little strong to begin with but I definitely think you should let her know that you have more of a romantic interest in her, and you'd like to go out on a date sometime as something a bit more than friends. As for her hooking up with guys at parties, it could be either to make you jealous or it may be her just enjoying herself, maybe your friend isn't looking for anything serious at the moment, but you'll never know until you speak to her.

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Re: I'm in love with my bestfriend - January 18th 2017, 03:09 AM

Hi, Luke!

I find it adorable you were in love with her even as a kid. It sounds like you are really good friends with this girl, and that those feelings didn't quite fade even after all these years. An important thing to remember is that some of the best relationships can come from a friendship. Honestly, if she is really special to you my advice is to tell her you have feelings for her and have for a long time.

Such a leap is likely scary, and yes, you cannot know how she will react and if she feels the same way. But continuing a friendship with her while having these deeper feelings for her sounds really hard for you. Without telling her, you cannot be sure what could come out of telling her. An amazing relationship may come out of it - you never know until you try.

Ultimately it is your decision, though. Whichever you decide, I hope you make a decision you are happy with. I wish you the best of luck!
   
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