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Super Awkward - April 20th 2017, 11:59 AM

Ok so I'm dating my best friend which is the best thing ever until one day I came to surprise him and he was kissing a boy, he's bisexual so it doesn't bother me but what bothers me is that he kissed the boy, and he saw me and he tried to run after me explaining but I was to freaked out to stay, did I do the wrong thing or something?

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Re: Super Awkward - April 20th 2017, 04:09 PM

I don't think you did the wrong thing since that was your reaction. You should contact him again and sit down with him and ask him about what happened and how he feels so you both can sort out what you both want and need from the relationship. Just because he's bisexual doesn't mean he can go kissing whoever he wants if he's in a relationship with you.

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Re: Super Awkward - April 20th 2017, 07:24 PM

if you both agreed to a mono relationship, he disrespected you by making out with his boyfriend. you should discuss with him before breaking up. maybe he can't handle a mono relationship and just wants to date you as well as his boyfriend.
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Re: Super Awkward - April 21st 2017, 12:25 AM


I am sorry you had to see this and I can understand that it hurts. You definitely did not do the wrong thing and I understand why you freaked out. I would have done the same if I were in your place. Just because he is bisexual does not mean he can kiss whoever he wants or have two relationships simultaneously unless he specifies it and you agree to it. I'd suggest talking to him about it since you say he ran behind you with an explanation. I am not suggesting you listen to his excuses but maybe talking to him will help you understand him and your relationship better and you will be able to decide if you want to continue things or not. It is after all your decision what you want to do but you are not in the wrong, I just want you to know that.

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