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Getting with someone/Snogging - June 7th 2009, 05:12 PM

To cut a long story short, in school i wasn't very popular, confident and didn't really date lasses. Now I'm 19 with no experience what so ever and have never even got with a lass. I'm seeing a lass atm and I have to keep making excuses when she goes to kiss me because I seriously do not know how to!

What do I do with my tounge? ect ect.. Could someone PM me or post it in this thread PLEASE. xxxxx

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Re: Getting with someone/Snogging - June 7th 2009, 08:29 PM

Just mimick what she does with her tongue. Kissing is not to be scared off, and it will come naturally to you once you start, so just give it a go!
Even tell her you're nervous, then she'll be able to guide you a little better.
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Re: Getting with someone/Snogging - June 7th 2009, 08:41 PM

When I had my first kiss, I was really nervous but it all turned out fine. Just go with the flow. If she uses her tongue later on during the kiss, then just do what she's doing. Give your tongue some exercise :P You can't plan how to kiss anyone. It comes naturally.

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Re: Getting with someone/Snogging - June 7th 2009, 08:56 PM

general rule with tongue: less is more.

cant go wrong with too little, can go very wrong with too much.

and it's really not as daunting as it may seem, you'll fall naturally into it i promise.


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Re: Getting with someone/Snogging - June 7th 2009, 09:28 PM

Lol I can't just go with the flow. If I muck up and everyone finds out im the biggest loser in my area lol.

Can someone explain what I need to do with my tounge
   
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Re: Getting with someone/Snogging - June 7th 2009, 09:57 PM

Welll.... You dont have to use your tongue, just like, wait for her too, then you'll... feel what she does, and youll be able to copy her... But even if you DONT use your tongue... Shes hardly gonna have a go at you



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Re: Getting with someone/Snogging - June 7th 2009, 11:45 PM

Just do it, you'll pick up on it easy. I promise. Don't worry about your tongue, it's not compulsory.

You could always just take a stab at it *no pun intended* and see how it goes down


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