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View Poll Results: Assholes........ Attracive or Not?
Yes 1 2.70%
Certine ppl 8 21.62%
no 11 29.73%
HELL TO THE NO! 20 54.05%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 37. You may not vote on this poll

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Exclamation Ladies, help a dude out plz - June 8th 2009, 03:36 AM

Okay, Im asking all the ladies to plz help me, and hopefully a lot of other dudes out, Im asking for some advice on asking somone out, Do's and Dont's, and anything else that bothers you about the process. So any advice is welcome, if you need details PM me. Thx
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Re: Ladies, help a dude out plz - June 8th 2009, 03:41 AM

What do you mean about the question in the poll, exactly?


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Re: Ladies, help a dude out plz - June 8th 2009, 03:43 AM

define assholes?

obnoxious, lying types?

unsnaps your brastrap types?

specifics might sway my answer.


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Arrow Re: Ladies, help a dude out plz - June 8th 2009, 03:45 AM

Well asshole in this i put to mean someone who gets a little too much kick out of themselves or seeing somone else suffer, so lying bastard types
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Re: Ladies, help a dude out plz - June 8th 2009, 06:09 AM

I am a guy, but who the hell wants to date/be with an A-hole?

In my opinion, sticking with the asking out pointers would be a better approach.
   
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Re: Ladies, help a dude out plz - June 8th 2009, 09:45 AM

Absolutely not, unless they're putting on a front, and they put it down for you.


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Re: Ladies, help a dude out plz - June 8th 2009, 03:51 PM

Nah, I don't see who could. I'd rather have someone that respects me.


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Re: Ladies, help a dude out plz - June 8th 2009, 03:57 PM

okay, so maybe there may be some attractive assholes out there, physically. but otherwise, i am not attracted to that crap.

however, two of my girl friends seem to fall for the same old routine over and over again and i warn them, but the heart wants what it desires.

i, on the other hand, do not like assholes. but i also CAN'T stand clingy/needy guys. it annoys the hell out of me. i don't want someone to treat me like dirt, but i also don't want someone waiting on my hand and foot ALL THE TIME.


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Re: Ladies, help a dude out plz - June 8th 2009, 04:19 PM

One thing girls like... Is when you speak English intelligently and not sound like all the other boys at school.

Just do it. If you're all shy about it, It just makes you look like you don't know what you're doing and that you're unconfident.


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Re: Ladies, help a dude out plz - June 10th 2009, 01:17 PM

Why the F- would I want to date someone who either (a) was just a dick all the time or (b) was only nice to me? If you can't be decent most of the time, then I'm not at all interested.



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Re: Ladies, help a dude out plz - June 10th 2009, 04:03 PM

I think a guy's perception of an asshole is different than to a girls because most people treat the new people of the opposite sex differently than the their own sex.

I assume there are girls that are 'bitches' in my school, but I can't really tell as well as other girls could. I have a rough idea and can pick out the obvious ones, but I really end up assuming most girls are nice. Same with girl's perception of guys.


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