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Summer Love - September 6th 2009, 04:58 AM

when i was on a family holiday in Cuba, i met this really amazing guy called Ross, and when we were there for the two weeks we kisssed and everything i love him so much and so does he. I found out he lives in the same country as me which is Scotland so its not that much of a big place. And i later on found out that we were on the same flight home which was great! We managed to swap seats and sat next to each other and kissed. we were going to miss each other so much. and i found put i lived 1hour and a half away so it was all good.we exchanged phone numbers and emails. So he used to call me and we would talk for ages and he would say how much he wanted to see me again and everything. And since i live abroad in South Korea, i had to leave scotland too, and i never got a chance to see him before i left scotland because we were really busy. So its alot harder now keeping in touch because of the time difference and we both have school. but we go onto webcam and video chat and everything. but its hard not seeing him. and now its getting harder to keep in touch but he says that he will never love antoehr person other then me. and i love him loads too i can't stop thiknig about him aswell. im going back to scotland in december and i will hopefully see him there, but the hard thing is my parents don't know anything.. im 13 soon 14 and hes turining 15 in december. its hard summer love. im not sure if i should keep up with this relationship or not? and what i should do to keep the relationship going? i really love him. thanks for the help.
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Re: Summer Love - September 6th 2009, 05:57 AM

Aww. You kids are in love.
Long distance relationship can get quite
complicated and you guy might not have that
stable relationship that you guys want and not
to bring you down sweetie, but in honesty I think
you guys can make it work,you're young and you're
in love and the guy obviously feels the same for you
and he might seem like a keeper, but to maintain a distance
relationship,there is no easy answer because I was in
the same situation as you but again anything is possible,
i would suggest talking to your parents at first before you
and your parents take the trip back to Scotland and maybe
write each other letters back and forth and schedule a time
when you guys can communicate through a web cam,etc and you
know at the same time this is not something i want you to take
serious because you're turning 14 soon and when you want to
continue a distance relationship it's tends to become difficult with not very often seeing each other so be cautious and be prepare what comes,it can get bumpy as the relationship progress but in the end it might just work out. Best of luck.

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Re: Summer Love - September 6th 2009, 07:26 AM

You have to decide for yourself if your relationship just may be worth waiting for. The distance can be very difficult and frustrating often, but if you really like this boy then there is no reason you should not do what you feel is right, as long as you trust him to do the same. In relationships such as these, communication is very important between the two people. Talk to him when you can and be honest with him. He should love you for who you are. :)

Don't be too disappointed if it doesn't work out the way you'd like it to. He might say that he will love no one other than you now, but you two are so young. There is no saying what the rest of your lives will bring. Just keep this in mind. x

"Years ago, I knew a boy who made all the wrong choices."

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