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is this odd? -
September 27th 2009, 03:31 PM
so, im almost 15, and it suddenly dawned on me (as both my sister and best friend have a boyfriend) that i've never acually talked intentianlly to a boy....
is that slightly unusual for someone my age? I know im not a lesbian and in no way see woman attractive, but at the same time i look around my class room and see no guy in anyway attractive..... Should i just wait until i feel it right to talk to a guy, or should i just jump in and try to talk to this new species? |
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Re: is this odd? -
September 27th 2009, 03:44 PM
Do whatever feels comfortable.
It isn't odd that you are not really attracted to anyone yet, you are still pretty young. If you'd like to randomly start talking to guys that would be ok as well, don't think they'd mind. Maybe after talking to some of them you will find one attractive. Who knows? Whichever you choose I wish you the best of luck. |
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Re: is this odd? -
September 27th 2009, 03:47 PM
Just wait until it feels right. You're perfectly normal, everyone is comfortable with the opposite sex at their own rate. There's not need to force it. Talk to guys when you want to, if you don't want to, continue with your life. There's nothing wrong with it.
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Re: is this odd? -
September 27th 2009, 04:06 PM
It's completely normal. I had my first proper boyfriend at 15, and apart from him there wasn't really anyone in my school that I was attracted to at that time.
Just do what ever feels comfortable. Don't try and rush into something for the sake of it, just take things as they come. You can't move mountains by whispering at them. Take a look at my art here: http://attemptedart.tumblr.com/ |
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Re: is this odd? -
September 28th 2009, 07:55 AM
That's perfectly normal. I mean, seriously, you're only 15... In my oppinion most people rush into things too early, and for the wrong reasons. Just take your time, you'll know when you're ready when you see someone you're interested in, or maybe even when they see you, who knows.
G'luck, I'm sure you'll figure it out |
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Re: is this odd? -
September 28th 2009, 02:33 PM
It's normal it wasn't till I was 15 I really ever liked or tried to make any effort to talk to any girl.
And I have never honestly found anyone until now at 18. Like everyone has already said everyone is different and keep in mind a lot of people don't have serious relationships that lead to marriage until after high school. Good luck^_^ "It's the first kiss. It's flawless. It's really somethin'...
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