PRIDE OR THE RIGHT THING!?!?!

[cookiecake09]

i dated this for about a yr in a half
we were best friends before that
in that period of time we broke up 2 times
the first time her broke up with me
i was the one who went bout seein remain friends
he asked me back 2 months after he broke with me
and then we stopped datin 2 months after that


we stopped talkin completey
he called me 2 in like 6 or 7 months
its apart of me that wants to talk 2 him
but i just feel like y shud i
i miss him but i feel like whn i wanted him to b in my life wasnt due to him not puttin the effort
n that he only wants to b in my life whn its convenient for him
but the thing is idk whether its my pride that wont let me call him or whether its the rite thing



help ne
!?!?!?!?

[delilah]

hmm it's kinda tough not knowing all of his reasons behind everything. if he really wasn't putting in the effort when you guys were first dating, and couldn't be bothered, then yeah i'm not sure you should really give him this chance, and if you think you could move on by not talking to him, then do so!

if you don't think you can move on either way, i vote talk to him, i know you shouldn't and i know you should kick him out of your life when he messed you bout, but sometimes things are easier said then done right?

i do think it's for the best and the right thing, and i think the fact you feel pride for yourself and not being on a string for him is a great thing and what makes it right for you to not talk to him!