Really messed up...

[Pelios]

OK
So I wake up today and I have a text message from my boyfriend saying to call him as soon as possible. I was a little confused so I called him. He was upset, and told me one of our worst nightmare. He told me his dad had finally messed up really bad; he got his “lover” pregnant. It was my boyfriend’s worst nightmare he would wake up one day and hear this news.
A little background on this. His father is really popular in our city he is always donating to charities and is involved in everything. Everyone knows who he is and, this news will defiantly be hard on all his family. Tomorrow everyone is going to know, and is going to be talking and start “rumors”. My boyfriend hates been in the spot light and now because of this he will probably be in a lot of stress.

Right now I’m on my way to his house, to be there for him and support him. But I don’t know how to react, I mean I really like his father I don’t know if he is going to be there. And his mom is really nice to me; his brothers are going to be there I guess. I don’t know what to say or do. I mean is there anything I can say to make him feel better. Today is going to be easy compared to tomorrow when everyone finds out.
Any advice or tips will be great. I’m just really in shock. I don’t know what the future holds for him or his family. I'm really scared.

[B.O.T.E]

Just listen to him, he seems to have a lot going on and may need you to be understanding and not to pass judgment. Just give him a hug and kiss and let him talk for as long as he needs to.

[tk338]

Yeahh, just listen Try and do like you are, be there for him, saying things could be taken the wrong way, I mean not that you would say anything wrong, but I think in terms of the time frame of things you've got to think of something, saying the right thing could be hard to come across and listening would be a lot easier . Stick up for him no matter what and I'm sure he'll find that enough!

[Nicolette]

Just be there for him, I'm sure he's going to feel embarrassed and like he needs someone to talk to. I'm sure he'll appreciate your support.

[Pelios]

I would never pass judgment about him. It really shocked me, and him I mean we all kinda knew about the other woman but no one talked about it. Now that this happened. The thing is that here were I live people know everyone and your business is everyones business. And since his father is impoved in everything.
I guess you could say I'm still in shock. I don't want tomorrow to happen. I can't imagine what the future holds for everyone.